Today, I will share a big way of chatting with a scum man, which will be explained from three dimensions: case, principle and method. It can help you and make you chat with anyone.
Have you encountered the following situations? I met a new girl, and I didn't know what to talk about. I talked twice every time, except for the expression bag. Looking at the mobile phone screen, the other person didn't move for a long time and wanted to continue talking, but he didn't even know how to speak. After work, I met my colleague in the elevator. The elevator didn't arrive so late that I couldn't even speak to ease my embarrassment. At the old school reunion, the other boys and girls talked happily. They couldn't catch a word when they were beside them, and they wanted to leave quickly. It's not that I don't want to stay longer, because it's really painful not knowing how to chat.
It doesn't matter. Today I told you a big move used by a chat master. Trust me, learn this move and have a chat for seven days and seven nights. First of all, you should understand a misunderstanding. The key to the continuity of chatting is not how much you can say. It is to guide the other party to the field he is familiar with. Many people don't talk much at ordinary times. When it comes to the fields they are familiar with, they have nothing to do with you. The rest is his personal show. Even if you haven't said anything from beginning to end, as long as you listen to him happily, the other party will reply to you and have a good chat with you. Don't you see many interview programs like this?
If you have children, ask them how to take care of them; If you start a business, ask him how to do business; For beauty, ask her how to maintain her skin; Ask the snack seller how to add spices to make things fragrant. Don't think you know all these things, so you don't think it's necessary to ask. In fact, the most favorite thing of the other person is that you ask him these things, and because of your questions and advice, his self-esteem and vanity will be greatly satisfied, because everyone is a teacher. The name of this big move is two words: pretending to be a fool. The meaning here is to ask questions from a slightly ignorant position. Your topic must match the interests of the other party. What you like is not important, but what others want to talk about is the key.
