What are the speech characteristics of people with high EQ? People with high EQ are speaking in these three ways. Not only are people popular, but even villains are polite to him.
The first is empathy
For example, your colleague, Crawfish, said to you, "I feel so bored with my work recently."
Xiaohuzi would say, "Who is tired of working? It's normal."
People with high EQ will say: "Yes, yes, you have been staying up late recently. It's too hard. If I were you, I would be more collapsed."
If you are a crawfish, who do you like to chat with?
The second one will detonate
For example, the leader said to you, "Hey, I suggest you exercise every day. I will run and read in the morning every morning."
The little axe said, "Yes, yes, yes."
People with high EQ will say, "Hey, leader, I also like to run in the morning. Which route do you usually run? What time is it?"
The leader said, "Little axe, you have been working hard recently."
The little axe said, "Well, it's not hard, it should be." Do you think the little axe killed his own hard work? People with high EQ will say: "Leaders are really hard, but it's worth everything I do with you, as long as you burden me. You will never lose the chain." Who do you think leaders prefer?
The third option
For example, the leader asked you to book a ticket, but there was no ticket. How can you report to the leader? The little axe said, "Alas, alas, there are no tickets."
People with high EQ will say: "Leader, I just checked that there are no direct flight tickets, and there are three transfer tickets, but it will take an extra hour and a half. In addition, there are tickets on the high-speed railway, and it will take an extra two hours for first-class seats. How do you decide?" With such a way of speaking, leaders will not be dissatisfied with the lack of tickets, but also feel that you are reliable, I look at you differently.
