How to attract people you like? If you can't do the following four points, even if girls attract you at the beginning, your attraction will continue to lose, which will make girls think you are a low value person. If you want to attract girls to like yourself, you should do the following four things.
First, calm and restraint.
The interaction between men and women is a game. In the interaction between two parties, there will always be more responses from one side than from the other side. The party with more responses will always follow the emotions of the other side and will always be led by the nose. The party with fewer responses here has a higher sense of value. Don't underestimate this. It's a knowledge. So don't easily expose your sense of need. Talk to her every day when you have nothing to do, make an appointment, send gifts, refuse to leave love, and go around each other every day. The other day it was OK. That girl may enjoy it very much. When the freshness period is over, another high-quality man will appear at this time. Your gap will come out at once. My sister will think you are cheap. Are you doing nothing? No friends? This brings us back to the first topic. In this relationship, you don't have any sense of value. You are always a ready to move spare tire.
Second, follow the trend, do not rush for success, and grasp the right balance.
Strange friends, close friends, ambiguous relationships, confirm the relationship, and do the corresponding things at the corresponding stage. You should not go beyond the threshold, nor advance too slowly or be too conservative. When a girl is with you, she should always be in a comfortable state, and at each stage, she should grasp the right balance.
Third, intimate distance.
Many boys can't find their own coordinates and positions. Before you confirm the relationship, they don't belong to you. Even after you confirm the relationship, neither man nor woman can say that the other is completely mine. This applies to both men and women. Don't pry too much into each other's privacy, leave a private space for girls, and properly care about each other's dynamics. For example, when a girl sends a circle of friends, it shows that she is having a party with her friends at night. Remember not to pop a personal message or comment on where you are? With whom? when do you come back? Why didn't you come back so late? Let me pick you up. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Fourth, neither humble nor overbearing, no desire is just.
In love, a man must not give up his dignity, and must not suppress himself to cater to her. Women depend on conquering. You need to let her look up to you. Don't attribute your problems to appearance and money at any time. There is no shortage of excellent people in the world, and when you have this idea, your value will only be lower and lower. What you have to do is to let the focus of girls always be on you, and your own focus should also be on yourself, so that you can take the initiative.
