Divorced women are like roadside flowers. Some people like them, but no one cares for them; Divorced men are like boats on the river. Some people cross the river by boat and disperse. Marriage is not terrible, divorce is not humiliating, the most difficult thing is to live without. Today, I would like to share with you four feelings about marriage life. No matter men or women, as long as you watch the video carefully, I believe you will be able to recover your marriage that is on the verge of breaking.
1、 What do women want?
Women want a man's irreplaceable responsibility. Poverty and perfunctoriness are two different things. Everyone will say I will give it 10000 times, rather than take it once. Don't turn if you can go straight. If a man does not understand, he is pretending not to understand.
So what do men want? Men are visual animals, and the amount of women's sleepiness affects the quality of marriage. If women still don't understand it, they are pretending to be pure.
After five or six years of marriage, it's very good that the couple can still make a quilt. Don't quarrel if you have nothing to do. If you are right, you don't need to lose your temper. If you are wrong, you don't have the right to lose your temper. If the temper between husband and wife is gone, luck will come.
2、 Why are women more likely to ask for divorce?
Whether or not they make mistakes in marriage, about two-thirds of divorces are initiated by women on their own initiative, not betraying the marriage, but at the beginning of marriage, women are emotional caretakers of this relationship. Women will put marriage, family and husband first, eager to get more love and care from each other, but the result is often counterproductive. Over time, women who have been wronged and disappointed will lose confidence in this relationship until they begin to try to retreat. The most terrible feeling is not a quarrel, but the indifference of no one to respond and care.
3、 No one will always love you, but someone will always love you. This person is your parents.
The person who can make you laugh may not make you cry, but the person who can make you cry can make you laugh. If you live in a mess in the first half of your life, you must reshuffle the cards in the second half of your life. You can earn money again if you have no money, make friends again if you have no friends, and look for love again if you have no love. In fact, you don't lack anything. The only thing you lack is the courage to face challenges. No matter men or women, when you experience more things, you will find that hardships are to achieve their own. Not always together is a good ending. Both sides have become better people, and the ending is perfect. Don't be greedy. You can't have everything. Don't lose heart. You can't have nothing.
4、 It is not shameful to divorce openly, but shameful to find a good home on horseback, brazen seamless connection, and to the end, I still pretend to be innocent and pathetic.
We often see people showing divorce certificates in a dithering voice. In fact, there is no need to tell everyone that you are divorced. This will only make those who want to see your jokes look like jokes and break the hearts of those who worry about you. Constantly improving yourself is the best explanation for the rest of your life. Finally, we advise the couples who must leave. If the child is young, it is better to follow the beggar's mother than the rich man's father after divorce. The father should pay the maintenance fee, because the father's family may not be able to work as a stepmother, but the mother can work as a stepmother alone. If a woman really wants to divorce, it is better to stay away from men who have been divorced for many times. Their true feelings have been given to their predecessors and their wealth has been given to their children. The only thing that can give you is endless comparison and defense. They want to find a free nanny more.
Divorced women are like roadside flowers. Some people like them, but no one cares for them; Divorced men are like boats on the river. Some people take the boat, but they disperse when they cross the river. In the final analysis, I advise you that it is best to leave without leaving because the person who gave birth to you and the person who gave birth to you do not want to see you leave. If you drive a luxury car and live in a villa, it's better to cross the road hand in hand. If you live in a golden nest and sleep in a silver nest, it's better than your peaceful nest.
