Men say these words to prove that they no longer love you. Love is the basis of a relationship. When your other half no longer loves you, this relationship will also face a conclusion. When a man doesn't love you any more, he will always show some behavior. Here are some related contents about men saying these words to prove that they don't love you any more.
1. "I'm tired"
When you proposed to love, he said, "I'm tired". You were shocked and thought that he must be tired to ignore you. But my friends, when thinking about his energetic love at that time, he could not meet his requirements twice a night. Is he really old? Is he no longer energetic? Sex and food, men are even more interested in sex. If a man perfunctorily treats you sexually, or even makes excuses, it only proves that he no longer loves you.
2. "I'm busy"
"I was so busy that I forgot", which is often heard from men in love. But is he really busy? "Busy" is a man's most common excuse. No matter whether he is dating other people or socializing, a busy word can handle his girlfriend well. Sometimes he said that being busy means he is doing something he doesn't want you to know. Sometimes, being busy only means he doesn't trust your agreement and completely forgets it. If he really loves you, he won't forget, because forgetting means that he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in love. It is a synonym for "jerk". A jerk is the person who uses busy to excuse you. Do you think such a person still loves you?
3. "I just got divorced and want to take my time"
You are not the only woman around him. You don't know his inner world and your position in his heart. He said to you, "I just got divorced and want to take my time.". A newly divorced man really needs a period of time to re accept another relationship, but this does not mean that he can act wildly, play with feelings and be ambiguous. If he likes you, he will not be ambiguous, and will tell the world of your ownership. When will it slow down? When will he accept a relationship again? Are you sure that the person who accompanies him is still you? If he uses this excuse to explain his ambiguity with others, please translate it into "I just want to kill time with you" and "I don't love you" automatically.
4. "We are still young"
You urged him to get married. He said, "We are still young" and listed a lot of reasons for not getting married. What's not a career at present? After marriage, life will cost a lot. It seems that many high sounding reasons are for your sake, but don't be deceived by men's external appearances. Many people may have experienced or seen such an example: a couple who had been in love for n years and thought they were going to get married, suddenly broke up, and then one of them married another like lightning. The other party may have to be painfully puzzled: why can't we "blossom and bear fruit" after so many years of feelings and efforts? At this time, someone needs to slap you in the face: Please, stop tormenting yourself. Having not been together for so many years can only prove that he really doesn't love you. He just didn't meet someone who really wanted to get married. Therefore, it is not that you are still young or the time is not ripe, but that he doesn't love you, and he doesn't want to marry you.
5. "I drank too much"
"He drank too much", "It was just an accident", "He was careless". When a man is found to have betrayed you, these are the best excuses. How much do you believe? There is no excuse for betrayal, and betrayal will not happen "accidentally". He can't say "Oh, I fell down accidentally and just fell into someone else's bed". Knowing that such infidelity will break the rules in love, you have to implement it. You can imagine where it is in his mind. You should just throw him off.
6. "I went out to relax"
Men always love to play hide and seek with you. When you can't see him on email or QQ, when you call to shut down the machine, and when you call the office to ask for leave, you are worried. You've looked all over the place, but you still can't find him. After a period of time, he suddenly appeared in front of you and said that he had gone out to relax. No matter how much you question him, he always goes out to relax as the reason for his disappearance. Don't spend a lot of energy to solve the "mystery of missing men". No matter you find all kinds of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the only truth is that he no longer wants to be with you, and has no courage to tell you clearly. Please believe that there is no secret: he is not worthy of you.
7. "Don't worry about it"
You see that he is worried every day. He asks with concern what makes him so worried, but he refuses you by saying "Don't worry". This sentence is like a knife, which makes people feel distressed and even colder. Don't think that he doesn't want you to worry by saying so. A man who really loves you wants you to integrate into his life, and give him some advice and help for his career and life. He doesn't want you to interfere in his life because he doesn't love you anymore.
Men don't love your performance
1. More and more speechless
The real ideal love will not lose the desire to share because of being together for a long time. Feelings are very realistic. When we love each other, we have endless conversations every day. But when we stop loving each other, all we have left is indifference.
In love, communication between each other is very important. The man who loves you will not feel that he has nothing to say to you. He will unconsciously share his life with you and want you to know what happened in his life. Having something to talk about is the most emotional thing in the relationship between men and women, and also the direct expression of love. When a man slowly becomes speechless, you should pay attention. Maybe it's just because you are not so important in his heart and he doesn't love you so much.
2. Keep your relationship private
In addition to sweet words, the declaration of sovereignty is also a manifestation of love when two people fall in love. In a relationship, the security that women want most is to know that they have a place in the life of their boyfriend, and no one can shake it.
No one will like a love relationship that only has mutual knowledge. What women want is always preference. A man who really loves you will not give others any chance. He will be afraid of making you worry.
If he really loves you, he will treat this relationship frankly, be willing to disclose your existence in front of relatives and friends, and refuse decisively because of you when facing other members of the opposite sex. If he is unwilling to disclose your existence, or even mind letting others know your relationship, it means that he doesn't care about you at all, and he doesn't love you so much.
3. Cold violence
In a relationship, cold violence is a very hurtful behavior. A man who really loves you is unwilling to hurt you in this way. When you encounter problems in your relationship, he will communicate with you well instead of choosing cold violence.
The most important thing in a relationship is to communicate and understand. If a man is unwilling to communicate, it means that he is not interested in this relationship. Otherwise, he will not use cold violence to solve your problems and let you suffer bad emotions alone. Men who are willing to use cold violence against you do not love you so much.
