With the increasing number of older leftover men and women, many young people no longer regard blind dating as a scandal. Therefore, many people have solved their own life issues through blind dating. Therefore, it is necessary to know some precautions about blind dating.
What behaviors do you dislike about blind date
Late arrival: In a society that regards time as money, late arrival is the death penalty. Moreover, if you, as a blind date, dare to be late without a gorgeous face and star like temperament, then your lateness is not personality in the eyes of the other party, but a fatal fault.
Sloppy: A girl once said that when she hated blind dates, the boys didn't shave and still wore hairball sweaters, which made people feel goose bumps. Indeed, you should remember that the blind date is not your partner, and no stranger has the obligation to pay for your casual home dressing style. If you don't attach importance to this blind date, you don't need to attend the appointment. If you agree to keep the appointment, you must give the matchmaker and yourself a "face" and show up in front of each other decently. Being sloppy will make the other person think you don't value yourself.
Too "pretend": in a civilized society, it is necessary to "pretend" a little. At least it's polite, but it's not good to pretend too much. During a blind date, natural disclosure is also very important. You are not willing to pretend with your partner for life, are you? Of course, you should be "smart" when going on a blind date. If the other person is your favorite type, you should move closer to his/her favorite type and attract the other person with every move, so as to achieve "love at first sight" without leaving any trace.
Too purposeful: Nowadays, most young people are against blind date, why? Because in their inherent impression, blind date is like a business. Both parties exchange terms and decide whether to make the business. "How many square meters is your house?" "How much do you save?" "When are you going to get married?" "How much is your monthly income?" Negotiations are all about human feelings, not to mention blind dates? Maybe what you are sitting in front of is the person who will accompany you in the future, so you should pay attention to the situation of people and their feelings, rather than some material conditions.
Don't take the initiative to pay the bill: Although it is said that men and women are equal now, men should take the initiative to pay the bill after a blind date. Otherwise, it will give girls a very stingy feeling.
Precautions for blind date
1. Prepare in advance for blind date. You don't necessarily know the object of the blind date. You don't know what the other person likes or dislikes, or what you like or dislike to hear. At this time, you must ask the person who introduced you to the object about his or her personal preferences, personality, work, family, etc. After understanding, you can make full preparations to meet again and talk to the person you like, which will increase the success rate of the blind date.
2. The weather on the day of the blind date. When choosing a date, you must be careful about the weather forecast, because the date usually means that things are coming in a hurry, and you should choose sunny days for the date in the recent days. Because rainy days will make people feel depressed and unhappy, and blind dates in this mood will affect the success rate. Choosing sunny weather can make people feel happy and happy when they are dating and talking with friends, which will greatly improve the success rate.
3. Time selection for blind date. The time of blind date is usually in the daytime, not at night. When you are tired all day at night, you will feel weak. At the same time, you can't see each other's face clearly when you are blind at night. The day time is usually between 10:00 and 11:00 in the morning. It's the most sunny and energetic time of the day to get up and clean up and eat breakfast. People will be tired and sleepy in the afternoon. Choosing a suitable date time can help the success of the blind date.
4. Dress for blind date. When choosing clothes for a blind date, you should wear casual, fashionable and casual clothes. It is better not to wear formal clothes or professional clothes. Wearing formal clothes and professional clothes will make people feel serious and difficult to talk, while fashionable and casual clothes will make people feel comfortable, and will not be constrained when talking, In this way, you won't feel embarrassed when you are on a blind date.
5. Gifts for blind date. When going on a blind date, they usually bring some small gifts. This is to find out who will be at home when going on a blind date. In this way, you can choose gifts according to the people accompanying the blind date. Good cigarettes and sugar are generally essential. If you have children, you can buy some yogurt and other favorite foods for children. If there are elderly people, you can prepare some health food such as pure milk. This kind of courtesy will increase the other party's goodwill and improve the success rate of blind date.
In modern society, men and women are more open to making friends, but there are still some people who are introverted or have less contact with the opposite sex at ordinary times will choose to solve life issues through blind dates. Today's young people no longer say they will choose to be more virtuous and virtuous like the older generation, because this lady will encounter such embarrassing things in the news, If you want to make a successful blind date, you should also pay attention to some precautions during the blind date.
