When you meet a boy you like, you should be bold to pursue, but if you don't master the method when pursuing, you will be in a weak emotional position, and the relationship will not last long. But how can I catch up with the boy I like? Now let's explain it.
1、 Refine yourself
Many girls only dress up brightly when they are dating, but they are rather sloppy in life. First of all, we should improve our overall appearance, ensure that your hair, skin, teeth and nails are clean and tidy, and maintain good personal hygiene. This can make you more confident. The second thing is to be polite. People with good manners will always make people feel very friendly. No one will dislike people with good qualities. So when you change your appearance, you must pay attention to your words and deeds. Don't let the other party think that you are a person without quality. The surface looks bright, but the inside is vulgar.
2、 Be good at chatting
Many people don't know how to chat with unfamiliar people. Sometimes talking becomes awkward. Maybe you will have some topics on WeChat chat software, but most girls will become timid and speechless when they face each other. At this time, if the other person is also a person with few words, you will fall into an awkward situation, Did they just sit and stare? So learn more talking skills, know what not to say and what to say, listen to others' talk more, and then respond positively. Don't say anything, you will only be there.
3、 Keep fresh
Most of the discussions in girls' life nowadays are about the delicious fresh meat, which brand of clothes or lipstick and cosmetics, but most of your interests are not interested in the opposite sex, so how do you talk about them? You must make him feel fresh. For example, you can ask his friends about his hobbies and interests in private. They like military or basketball and football. Then you can do your homework before dating, so that you can talk about something when you are dating, and he will feel different about you from other girls.
4、 Let him relax his vigilance
Many people feel stressed and nervous when they first date. How can they let the other person down slowly and talk freely? It depends on how you create a relaxed atmosphere for him. For example, if you make a small mistake, and then make fun of yourself, you will make him feel that you are an interesting person, not so difficult to get along with, and will gradually open up a conversation box for you.
