Why are you humble in your feelings? But because you didn't stick to these eight principles. Men often live humbly in marriage because they do not adhere to the following eight principles.
First, don't use money to please any woman, because she may only fall in love with your money, not with you.
Second, don't love any woman more than yourself. Because when you lose yourself, you will lose the whole world, including the person you love most.
Third, don't overdraw your strength to pursue a woman. Because all things obtained by overdraft strength are often lost in the end.
Fourth, true love is not that you deliver breakfast to her every day, rain or shine, nor that you have to save for a long time to meet her needs, nor that you have no bottom line to pay for her and move yourself. These are unhealthy emotional behaviors. You can send her breakfast, but don't make her dependent and lazy from a person with healthy limbs. You can meet her reasonable needs, but don't even know how to cherish yourself. You can pay for her, but don't be like a tool to solve problems.
Fifth, don't marry someone with unstable temperament, because your happiness will be shattered instantly.
Sixth, don't provoke people with bad habits, because she will lead you into the abyss of pain. Don't think you can change her. Her parents can't change her for decades. Do you think you can?
Seventh, we should also pay attention to the image after marriage. In the first year of marriage, if you are disheveled and slovenly, she may be able to bear it, but not in the seventh year. When the sense of freshness and mystery wears away, you no longer have a halo in her eyes. How can she love such a unkempt man? Where does the happiness of marriage come from when love is gone?
Eighth, maintaining a long-term marriage relationship is not based on the upper limit of feelings in the passionate period, but on the lower limit of feelings in the dull period. So many times you complain about unhappy marriage and no love. In fact, it is not your love that has changed, it is your heart that has changed, and it is your failure to adhere to principles. Of course, as a man, he must love his own woman, but no matter how much he loves her, he must have principles.
If you want to be not humble in love, you have to constantly learn to adjust, because if you don't take it seriously, love will return with ruthlessness.
