To improve self-confidence is what everyone with a sense of inferiority wants to have. Everyone wants to stick to good habits, but 90% of people can't because they lack willpower. So, how can a person with weak willpower improve his willpower? In fact, improving willpower is a part of improving one's self-confidence. To make oneself more confident, willpower is indispensable! Today, I recommend 6 ways to improve your willpower.
First point: when you want to retreat, think about your goal and direction of life
I believe that everyone who wants to change himself and improve his self-confidence really wants to become better, has irreplaceable core competitiveness, and can reflect the value of his life. However, even the best people will inevitably want to retreat. At this time, what we need to do is to take out the goals we have set for ourselves, see how long the example goals will last, think about the direction of your life, and what kind of ways and contents you will use to reflect your life value. When you focus on these aspects, you will generate a kind of motivation from your heart. At this time, your mind has calmed down and it is easier for you to persist.
Second point: think more about the long-term consequences and not seek short-term happiness
People often ask me, "Teacher, how can you quickly make yourself confident?" In fact, can you make a person confident quickly? Yes, that is to meet your needs in time! However, this does not make a person truly confident, This will only make you "seem to be working hard. So, we can't just aspire to short-term happiness and say that I want to make myself confident. Instead, we should think about how to plan our own life, what we should do in each age group, and have a long-term plan. To consider the long-term consequences is to learn to delay gratification.
Third point: look at the problem from another angle
Generally, the reason why we can't stick to it may be because we have suffered setbacks or seen the bad side of things. At this time, all you need to do is change
