First of all, you need to think about a question. A girl likes you but doesn't take the initiative to find you. What is she thinking when she wants you to talk to her? And she is unwilling to come to you because of two points.
First, what if I take the initiative to find you and you don't respond to me?
Second, if I am a girl who takes the initiative, will the price drop? Would you care less about me after I took the initiative?
In the final analysis, it is because she lacks a sense of security that she is afraid that her initiative will bring bad comments. Therefore, if you want her to come to you on her own initiative, you must give her a certain sense of security, such as revealing what you like about her, but not becoming a formal expression. You can just hint.
Talk more with girls about some in-depth topics, such as your little secrets and your love experience, so that you can have a deep understanding and resonance, plan your future, where you will travel in the future, and which city you will go to develop. No girl can resist a man who can plan for the future, And you can also plan her in your future, so that the girl will feel that there is a future with you, instead of parting after playing, so that the girl will have a sense of steadfastness in her heart, and will be more willing to pay for your relationship.
When you give a girl a sufficient sense of security, she will feel that she is with you. Her efforts are rewarding and have a future. Only a sufficient sense of security can make a girl who likes take the initiative.
The second thing you should do is to hint her to come to you, because girls need to be led. The girls who will take the initiative on that day will either become refined or become women men. Even if most girls are willing to do something for you, she will not take the initiative to do it, but under your guidance, she will do it with half a push. As a woman I once knew often said, it is normal for most girls not to take the initiative, not to be responsible and not to resist. So you can directly put forward the demands that you want her to take the initiative,
For example, "What happy things do you usually have to tell me, to be happy with you, and what sad things do you have to tell me, to share with you. We take turns to share a feeling with each other every day. Then the thing I feel most today is xxxx, and you? Well, I'll share it first today, and it's your turn to share it tomorrow."
And you can make the other party take the initiative by selling badly, For example: "Well, I'm usually too busy, and I may forget to return you when I'm busy. If you miss me, you must send me a message, and I will respond to you as soon as I see it. Ah, I'm afraid of saying wrong things, so I may have to think about it for a long time when I come to you. Maybe you can take the initiative, and I can open myself more and share my true thoughts with you. Well, I'm actually a People who are not good at chatting sometimes don't know what to talk about, but I want to chat with you. If you come to me, I will respond to you warmly. "
When you talk to girls about these things, you are actually subconsciously leading girls to take the initiative to stick stick stick stick stick stick stick stick, understand? First.
