Most girls have the same idea of choosing a mate. Brothers only need to know what kind of boys most girls don't like, and then avoid them in the pursuit process to maintain your relationship. Now let's introduce what kind of boys girls don't like. I hope it can help you.
1、 Constantly expose the sense of need
Some boys will ask, what is a sense of need? It is similar to thirsty for water or food. If you like a girl, you will want to keep close to her. All kinds of expressions of kindness to her in your words will make your sense of need stronger. That is to say, the more you want girls to like you quickly, you will automatically lower your profile to woo good girls, so that girls will dislike you more. When you attract girls, you will only make her think you are unattractive.
2、 Constant self doubt and self denial
Some boys, since they have a girl they like, regard it as a top priority to wait for the girl's reply every day, and stare at the mobile phone screen every day. Even if the girl returns, she will be very happy. However, because of their inability to master the chat rhythm, the girls are not interested in it. They will feel uneasy when they do not reply to the news for a few days, or even when the game disappears. Tell the girls whether they are not good enough and I will change them? What makes you unhappy? Are you angry? It is only the boys who have a strong aura both inside and outside that girls will not like the appearance of being submissive and having no position.
3、 Always defend yourself
For example, if you communicate with your superior, the leader will not explain something to you, but you will explain it to your leader. People with low value will explain it to people with high value. Similarly, when chatting with girls, girls do not understand. Many boys will explain to girls like writing a composition. At this time, girls may not have read it all, or even don't want to read it at all. Many boys are reasonable. When you try to convince the woman with logic, she will probably reject you.
4、 Offer hospitality and show kindness
Many boys will reply to girls' messages as soon as they send them when they are chatting with girls. In fact, this is a very cheap move, which will make girls feel that you have nothing to do. More importantly, in the whole process of chatting, we always try to be friendly. For example, "You should wear more clothes when it's cold. Are you in a bad mood? I'll treat you to dinner, or I'll pick you up from work" and a series of dog licking words that flatter girls, just like the slaves who served the master in ancient times. Remember, only people with low status will fawn on people with high status. So when you do this in chat, your status and sense of value will be very low. How can girls like you?
5、 Self righteous and eager for success
This is also a big taboo for most boys to chat. Before they have known girls for a long time, they show a strong sense of purpose in the process of chatting. They just want girls to like you immediately and bathe in the sunshine of love. But you have to know, can you think about it from the perspective of the woman? People are emotional animals with thinking. If you do this, the girl will surely think, are you running for feelings or just because your male hormones are overflowing? Those who know something can only say that your EQ is low. Those who don't know have long been scared away by you.
The emotional road is not smooth, but needs to be slowly tasted and run in with each other. In the process of chatting with girls, we must go step by step. We must not act too hastily, or we will fail. In the communication with girls, if you also have the above problems, please correct them quickly, or the girl you like will only leave you.
