Today, I will tell you about the most commonly used method of breakup recovery, which is called frozen recovery method. The freezing recovery method means to cool this relationship, let it go, turn the situation around, and let it come back to you.
Many people are reluctant to accept the freezing recovery method at the beginning, because their mood at that time was very eager to recover. In fact, the more anxious you are, the more irretrievable you are. You must calm your mood, and then give the other party some space to recover.
What is the psychological state of the other party when using the freezing recovery method? When you start freezing, he feels relieved at the beginning, because you may not want to break up before, which makes the other party very stressed. When you start freezing and do not contact the other party, because you may not want to break up, which makes the other party very stressed. When you start freezing and do not contact the other party, the other party thinks you are open, and insists on not contacting him for three weeks. He will be curious because the party who proposed to break up had a sense of psychological superiority. I am more attractive than you, and you need me very much. After two or three weeks of inaction, his sense of superiority will be shocked, and he will start to have curiosity. Do you have new contacts? He may also start to take the initiative to care about your situation. This kind of care does not mean that she wants you, so you should continue to hold your ground. Never rush to his arms when he comes to you. Then your previous freezing methods are all fake. At the same time, you should focus on improving yourself, and exercise and fitness must improve your charm. Some people say that my heart is in his place, and I have no mind to do this. The key point of freezing recovery is to take back my heart, stabilize your heart, and find yourself. When the other party has a little idea of you, freezing will work. And he will take the initiative to contact you and chat with you. You can have a little chat, but it must be lukewarm. And he will take the initiative to end up pretending that you are busy, making him feel that you are not important to him. When the other party comes to you, you should not completely refuse, which shows that you still have a lot of emotions and feelings, and you should understate them. The more relaxed the woman is, the more she can arouse the man's desire for control and possession.
If you can do that, he calls you five times, you only call him once, you call him ten times, and he calls you seven times, then you will take the initiative. In many cases, you can't do it because you are lack of love. It has a lot to do with your original family and your growth background. That's not a problem you can solve yourself.
