After entering the workplace, many friends have such problems. They don't get along well with their colleagues and don't know what to do. Now let's introduce what we can do if we don't get along well with our colleagues for your reference. Let's have a look!
First, physical distance
In addition to work, try not to get together every day in other time, such as eating and commuting, because everyone needs independent space, and it will be boring to see the other person too much.
Some companies can't avoid having meals together, but if possible, try not to get together every day, and physically give yourself a distance from each other.
Distance produces beauty.
Second, psychological distance
Psychological distance refers to not having heart and lungs with colleagues and leaders. The workplace is a very complex place.
Don't tell them everything and keep your mystery.
Don't talk about your private life. When your private life is exposed, you will have no secrets. Please protect your privacy.
Keep a "comfortable" distance, keep a certain sense of mystery, and believe that distance produces beauty.
Third, master communication skills
In fact, the reason why we hate each other at work is mostly due to conflicts at work.
Even if views and opinions are inconsistent, we also need to express them in a euphemistic way or in a mild tone.
Good communication can not only achieve work goals, but also promote the relationship between colleagues.
Master good communication skills and learn to have a clear target.
Don't let the other party's emotions affect your personal emotions, personal communication and expression, and the purpose of communication.
Even if the other party's communication is not good, we should also grasp ourselves to balance and reconcile the relationship between the two people.
Fourth, learn to be lenient
Finally, learn to be lenient.
Whether it's lovers, lovers, relatives, or colleagues, we should recognize that everyone is an independent individual, and everyone has their own ideas and values.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we need to learn to accommodate each other's strengths and weaknesses.
If sometimes you really can't see the shortcomings of the other party, you can think about it this way. The other party is just a colleague who works with you, and it doesn't affect your personal interests. If it doesn't matter, just take a step back and think about it.
Adjust personal mentality and actively face all kinds of people in the workplace.
Even if you resign to the next company, you will still face imperfect leaders and colleagues.
Guiguzi once said: "Gossip without taboo, selfishness without consideration, force without right, do not make deep friendship." For people who are not in tune with each other, keep a certain distance, do not make deep friendship, just get along with them respectfully and politely.
In the workplace, you can't do everything you want. There are always a lot of disappointments in the workplace for adults. Escaping can't solve the problem. After all, people who make you headache wherever you go.
Escape will never solve the problem. It is your ability to deal with people you hate.
