Puppy love is a very common phenomenon, even primary school students have begun to fall in love. So, what are the reasons for children's puppy love? Now let's talk about the reasons for children's puppy love and the correct education methods for children's puppy love!
What are the reasons for children's puppy love
1. Maturity of physiological development. Because they are not prepared for their own physiological changes, they will feel uneasy, shy and afraid; Later, there will be another tendency, that is, I am not a child, I have grown up, I want to be independent, I have a tendency to get rid of my family and go to the circle of friends of the same age, I feel that no one understands my psychology, only new friends can understand it, and gradually it becomes puppy love.
2. Unhealthy films, books and periodicals have the most serious impact. Books and periodicals are rented from the bookstore near the school. Some students hid their books after renting them and hid in the toilet after turning off the lights at night. The next day, they were depressed and in a trance.
3. Teenagers today are generally precocious, but the corresponding education cannot keep up. Many parents have no idea that their children are entering puberty. Some even know it, but they also hide it. They are mysterious, which arouses teenagers' curiosity.
4. Most of today's teenagers lack a sense of responsibility. They regard love as fun and never want to be responsible for each other.
5. It's vanity. Junior high school students are in vogue with the idea that they are looked down upon by others because they are capable when they have objects, but not when they have objects. Therefore, some students compete with each other and the more they change, the better.
6. The family is disharmonious or divorced, hoping to get love.
How to educate children in puppy love is the right way
1. Pay attention to mental health, don't watch inappropriate newspapers, magazines, movies and TV programs, put energy into learning, read more biographies of great people, and cultivate their willpower to set ambitious goals. Some teenagers have puppy love or unrequited love. They like to exaggerate their position in each other's mind and think that each other's words and deeds are related to themselves, or even influenced by themselves. The other party's performance declined and was criticized by the teacher, who thought it was because of his own reasons, so he felt sorry for the other party; The other party has been in low spirits or thin recently, thinking that it is because the other party misses him, so I am very moved. This kind of psychology of teenagers is actually a kind of "self imposed sentimentality".
2. The relationship between puppy love and normal communication between male and female students should be handled correctly. Every adolescent boy or girl, with the gradual physiological maturity, will begin to pay attention to students of the opposite sex, and hope to understand them and interact with them. This is a normal psychological phenomenon. Teenagers' attachment to the opposite sex is not what some parents and teachers think. It is a disgrace and disgrace. This has little to do with moral character. Most teenagers have "puppy love" or "unrequited love" with a member of the opposite sex they like very much. The key is how to deal with the relationship between puppy love and normal communication between boys and girls. Don't be overly sensitive, don't think that the opposite sex is in love with you, and don't always express love to others.
3. Participate in more group activities, distract the attention of the opposite sex alone, and do not interact with the opposite sex alone. By participating in meaningful collective activities, you can cultivate your own sentiments, set up lofty ideals, and get help and friendship from your classmates. At the same time, it can distract your attention from puppy love and alleviate your troubles. It can also calm your mind and weaken your strong feelings for the opposite sex you like.
