Introverted people are difficult to survive in society and are often bullied by others. If you are also an introvert, it is necessary to change yourself. So how can introverts change themselves? Here are some tips to help you.
The first move is to forget the identity of others
Don't always feel inferior. Some people are afraid of authority. When they see others as leaders, they will hesitate to speak. This will make others look down on you, think you have never seen the world, and have a strong sense of inferiority. Others see others as more beautiful than themselves, richer and more powerful than themselves, and also feel that they have no confidence and are ashamed of themselves. In such a situation, you have no need to inferiority. No matter who he is, he will not give you half of his money. Therefore, you should talk to him in a big way. If he puts on airs in front of you and looks arrogant, you should ignore him.
Second, you should dare to look at others directly
This is a kind of confidence. If you dare to look him in the eye, it shows that your heart is not empty, and you can see from his eyes. Read a lot of subtle information. Those who tell lies usually have erratic eyes. People with good eloquence are good at making eye contact with others, but some people, including rolling their eyes or looking at the ceiling in public, deliberately do not look at others, so they should dare to look others in the eye when speaking.
The third move is to talk to others comfortably
This way we can talk without embarrassment. For example, you must speak confidently, and make sure that you don't add "Maybe so, I'm not sure." If it's you, would you like to chat with people who talk in a roundabout way? The frequency of speaking should be short, so that you can appear competent. Don't be like an old lady's foot binding, smelly and long. In short, you should say good words, short words, direct words, not wordy, not indirect.
Fourth, dare to refuse
Dare to reveal their own views and attitudes directly. The reason why some people are humble is that they have no opinions and attitudes in the workplace all their lives, so others will look down on you and take you seriously. For example, when the company has a meeting and someone pushes you to do the work, he or she should tell the leader that there should be rules in this matter. The person who should do it should do it. If you do this, others will respect you. Can help, but you can't do without the bottom line. If you are always afraid and have no idea, think for yourself, who will look up to you? When a baby is born, he knows to cry and make noise. This is a basic human instinct. You don't even have the instinct to sound. Who do you expect to look up to you? If others don't bully you, who will they bully.
