We all want to make friends with people who are reliable. Working with people who are reliable will make us feel relaxed and stress free. What are the four characteristics of reliable people? How can we become a reliable person? Here is a brief introduction.
First, if you can't do something, you must say hello half a step faster
One of the most maddening things is that when you tell him anything, he says that the beginning of the month is OK, the middle of the month is OK, and at the end of the month I can't rely on him to tell you. This kind of person is often dead in the dark. In the end, others are even too lazy to give you advice.
Second, you must pay back the money you borrowed quickly
Even if it's just one day earlier than the appointment. If you can't pay back as promised, please refer to the first rule and tell others in advance. Don't let others rush you. This is the bottom line. If you can, after paying back the money, you can give a small red envelope to others to thank them.
Of course, the same principle applies. If you promise to lend money to others, you'd better give it to others half a step faster. A friend of mine asked me to lend him 50000 yuan for the down payment of the house. He said on the phone that I would give it to him immediately after calling next week. I sent a message and said, "I used to borrow money from others, but as long as the money didn't arrive at the account, I always felt worried about an accident, so I first paid the money to you." This matter has been going on for several years, and he often said this matter, which is called to make others feel safe.
Third, after you have an appointment with someone else, you must arrive half a step faster
Wait quietly when you arrive. Five minutes after the appointed time, if the other party has not arrived, you can send a message to the other party to indicate that you have arrived. If you have an appointment with someone, when you arrive and see that the other person has arrived in advance, will you feel more trust in him when you calmly read the newspaper? So take heart to heart.
Fourth, sit in the east, invite dinner, and settle the bill quickly
In the second half of the game, I probably won't add any more dishes, so I can take the opportunity to go to the toilet to settle the bill? After dinner, we can go with everyone to avoid two situations.
1. Why rush to pay the bill after eating? It's a harmonious and hypocritical picture?
2. After dinner, everyone is waiting at the door for you to pay the bill at the front desk, which is really embarrassing and polite. Why?
Long sighted people and investment conscious people should learn these four "fast half steps", so that you can always rely on people.
