How to chat when you first meet someone? Many friends don't know much about chatting skills, and they don't know what to talk about or how to talk when they first meet. Today, I will teach you how to find topics with high EQ when you first meet. I believe you will talk with others freely and never get tired.
First, learn to vary from person to person
Talk more about feelings and less about right and wrong when facing women; When facing men, talk more about logic and less about feelings; More encouragement and less reason in the face of children; Talk more about the past and less about the future when facing the elderly; In the face of the poor, talk more about interests and less about feelings; In the face of the rich, praise his style and aesthetic, not only praise his wealth; Communicate with people who are not as good as you, talk more about them and less about yourself; Communicate with people who are better than you, ask more questions, ask more advice, and don't just fawn.
Second, prepare more
Before meeting, look through other people's circle of friends to see their latest developments, and see the short videos he sent, and find something worthy of praise. Since someone else has made an announcement, it means he wants you to see it. Social networking is like playing games. If someone has a big move, you may lose some blood. If someone has a circle of friends, you may want to praise them. Here comes the point. The earlier I find out about him, the better. It means that I am interested in you. I even checked your past information, and inadvertently revealed that you attach importance to him and agree with him?
Third, ask questions to express your praise
Don't just brag dryly, you are so great, you are so powerful. When hearing someone say something successful, you should learn to "God, how did you think of this? Can you tell me more about your practices at that time?" The expression should be in place. As for what he answers, it is no longer important. The attitude you want to express has been expressed in the question.
