How can chasing girls make each other like themselves more and more? Many boys don't know the skills. Here's a way to let girls like themselves quickly. After learning it, I believe that you are more and more important in the other side's heart, and girls are more and more attached to you.
First of all, let me ask you a question. Do you find that when girls make up a large proportion of the total contribution in a relationship, girlfriends tend to prefer boys and their relationship is more stable. This is the cost effect of silence. So how to make it difficult for girls to give up this relationship and let the other party like you more and more? There are actually two steps
The first step is to acquire the ability that the other party is good at meeting the needs of girls
For example, girls are good at cooking, and you can always invite girls to have a big meal after you ask them to do it with you. For another example, if a girl is good at taking pictures, you can ask her to take pictures for you and invite her to see a movie or have dinner afterwards. The key point is to let girls' advantages be recognized.
Step 2: learn to reward the other party
When a girl has done what you want her to do, give her emotional value back in time. Start from a small matter, such as asking her to pour a glass of water. After she pours it for you, you can say: "When you pour water, you find your nails are pretty good." Praise the other person without any ingredients, but the other person will be satisfied because of praise. After a long time, Subconsciously willing to listen to your arrangements. At last, you may not understand that it will subvert the behavior pattern of many boys chasing girls, but the reality is that you do this, and girls will definitely like you more and more.
Speaking is a very important skill. If you don't know how to speak and often offend others, the following high EQ speaking skills will help you.
1. Use more "you" and less "me" when talking with others. For example, don't always say what I think, but often ask the other person what you think?
2. Get rid of the bad habit of being outspoken. It is hard to make shallow acquaintance, especially with unfamiliar people. Don't peep into each other's privacy, let alone reveal your own privacy.
3. We should get rid of the bad habit of being a teacher. You can share ideas, but don't teach others to do things. If you are right, others will not appreciate you, but if you say wrong, you will only attract resentment.
4. Get rid of the bad habit of talking about others behind their backs. Remember a word, those who discuss right and wrong must be right and wrong. For example, when a colleague asks you, "What do you think of the new Xiao Zhang?" No matter what you think, don't make any judgments at this time. You can say, "Xiao Zhang and I are working together smoothly, but there are not many personal friends, and on the whole, they are good." Then immediately change the topic.
5. Get rid of the bad habit of being prominent in front of others. For example, when you recently changed to a BMW, a friend asked you if it would cost you a lot of money? At this time, you should not be foolish to say that your dream has finally come true, only 600000 yuan. Instead, you should learn to complain, "Hey, forget it. After three years of frugality with my wife, my parents made some money to pay him the down payment. You have to accompany me more when working overtime in the future."
6. Get rid of the bad habit of being outspoken. It's better to look through and not talk about it. Especially for those who like to show off their stink, look through and don't expose it, hate it, don't turn around, smile, but also be prepared. If you don't talk about it, you know it. People who can understand and pretend to be confused are really good at it.
7. Get rid of the bad habit of refusing others. Especially when you are in a dilemma, you must refuse freely. It is the greatest respect not to waste each other's time.
8. Get rid of the bad habit of telling the truth. For example, when a friend comes to you to complain when he is lovelorn, you should never pretend to be a master and say, "I told you so long ago that he is a scum boy." In fact, your friend needs empathy more than your advice at this time.
9. Get rid of the bad habit of being embarrassed to talk about money. For example, you helped your colleague bring breakfast, but nothing happened all morning. You can take the initiative to ask: "Manager Wang, your leek box has consumed a total of 15 yuan, is it WeChat or Alipay. If you lower your evaluation of him and lose a personal connection because of his forgetting, it is the most rewarding.
10. We should get rid of the bad habit of not praising others. It's not surprising that many people give gifts. Praising others is the most cost-effective way to give gifts. If you are stupid and can't praise others, please remember the following little trick that has been tried and tried for many times, that is, say the truth in reverse, first suppress and then raise. For example, a girl complained in her circle of friends that she was a single dog and nobody hurt her. You can comment to him like this: "You say you are single all day long, and you don't look in the mirror to see how beautiful you are. Which boy is worthy of you?" This is the highest level of boasting. I know it is fake, but I am also very happy.
