Straight men are stupid and talk to girls about how much they listen to girls and talk about topics close to life
1. Listen to the girl
Since you are stupid, then don't say too much, after all, there are many mistakes, just listen to what the girl says, in the process of listening, the boy must listen to what the girl is saying, in fact, the girl's words have a part of the implied meaning, the boy can understand her from some key words in the girl's words, is the boy has been sitting there from beginning to end to listen to her.
2. Talk about topics close to life
When you don't know what to say, boys can find some topics that they are more familiar with, or topics that girls are more familiar with to chat, for example, if you like to watch variety shows, and girls happen to like it too, then the two can use a variety show as a topic for the two to chat, often these topics are closer to life, even if they are stupid, they are not afraid to say the wrong thing.
Boys can share their true thoughts with girls, but stupid boys must not challenge those highly professional topics, and girls themselves are not interested, and it is easy to say the wrong thing, so as to save the end of embarrassment.
How to chat with a girl you just met:
If you have just added the other party's WeChat, you can take a look at the information posted by the other party's circle of friends, which is generally a topic that girls like, so you can expand around this topic. When chatting with the other person, remember not to ask "Have you eaten", this kind of question is boring, embarrassing, and there is no anger, and the girl may also be very disgusted after saying this.
Of course, don't be flamboyant when communicating with girls, otherwise the other party will think that this person is unreliable. Mobile WeChat chat is still different from face-to-face chat, and you can intuitively understand whether the other party is interested in you when you chat face-to-face. But it can't be observed through WeChat chat, and through WeChat chat, the other party may not have time to reply.
How can a straight man talk to a girl with a stupid mouth
1. Open-ended questions, so that the chat is not embarrassing
Some straight men chat, it really makes people "speechless". "Do you like watching movies?" Have you eaten?" These questions that can be answered with "like or dislike" and "yes or no" are collectively referred to as closed-ended questions, and they are also the most annoying "check household registration" conversation behavior of girls.
Do you like watching movies, the other party says yes/dislike, and the conversation ends. The right and smart way to do this is to use open-ended questions. "What do you like to do after work?" For example, if you like to drink coffee, you can continue to say, "There are many Internet celebrity cafes in our city, which one do you usually like?" The topic then opened.
"What are your hobbies?" The same is true for questions like these. When you don't know what to say, try to change the closed-ended questions to open-ended questions to make the conversation more informative.
2. Avoid "toxic" topics and talk more about "daily" topics
Ladies and gentlemen, please save a little when chatting with girls on topics such as "games", "world economy", "political trends", "science fiction and immortal cultivation", and "international football". Most girls are not in the mood to put on a mask and listen to your serious analysis of the international economic situation and stock venture capital.
"Toxic" topics refer to topics that girls are not interested in and do not understand, and only you are unilaterally self-exalted. "Daily" topics refer to topics that both parties have a high degree of participation in and are willing to talk about. For example, "constellation", "travel", "dressing", "hobbies", "work/life fun", etc., which do not involve complex emotions, simple and brisk, can be used in the early stage of chatting, so that the other party gradually likes to share life and chat with you.
3. Be more praised, and praise more girls
Always emphasizing to you to talk about topics that girls are interested in, do you look up to the sky and ask: What are girls most interested in? I'm telling you, girls are most interested in themselves! Every girl is narcissistic! Eager to be complimented by others! Wishing yourself to be the exception is the only favoritism!
So, if you want to make the girl's heart bloom and praise her, and do more serial rainbow farts, you will definitely get twice the result with half the effort! Of course, it's not for you to talk awkwardly and praise "Beauty, your legs are so white and long", so that girls want to block you.
The key trick is that the praise is not deliberate, unobtrusive, and at the same time very real and concrete. For example: "Your yellow dress today is amazing." "The girl will definitely say politely, hahahaha, how can there be, or say coldly, oh. At this time, you can say, "The color of this skirt is not easy to control, you have to have very white skin, and you must have a good temperament, otherwise it will show the soil, and your temperament is really good." "You say she's not happy?
4. Soul resonance, break through the defense line
Girls like "soul mates" and people who understand her and understand her. In the process of chatting, you can talk about some slightly more in-depth topics, such as future planning, and requirements for future mate selection.
These topics are very willing to be shared by girls, after the girls share, combined with the "praise skills" I taught you in the previous article, sincerely and gently say "I didn't expect you to be such an ideological girl" "Your three views are too positive!" I really didn't expect such a beautiful girl to have such a simple and kind concept of mate selection!"
Regarding the unhappiness, emotional confusion and grievances in life, if the girl shares it with you, this is the best opportunity to "break the ice" and bring your relationship one step closer! So, don't be a straight man when a girl shares unpleasantness with you, and tell her to reason with her seriously, she doesn't need reason, what she needs is someone who understands and understands her with infinite recognition! If you want scientific truth or a goddess girl, you choose!
Here's how to chat with a stupid person and a girl:
1. Exchange understanding, refuse to check the account. Many boys with low emotional intelligence, when they just met a girl, they asked each other all kinds of questions, in fact, this way is the most annoying thing for girls, and the two people are not familiar to a certain extent, so they are violating each other's privacy and making the other party feel very uncomfortable. If you want to understand girls, it is best to exchange understanding, first talk about your own situation, provide some information about yourself, so that the girl has a certain familiarity and understanding of you, and she will be willing to tell you her situation.
2. Pay attention to the way you express yourself. Many boys are stupid and speak very straight, so they will offend girls everywhere, but in the process of pursuit, you should pay attention to the way you express yourself, because the structure of men and women is different, and your way of expression is likely to cause disgust among girls.
3. Love House and Wu. When chatting with the girl you like, you have to learn to find each other's keywords, that is, to understand what the other party's interests and hobbies are, according to the topic that the other party likes, there will not be too much distance between you, even if you don't understand it at all, it doesn't matter, take this opportunity to let the girl talk to you, I believe the girl will also be very interested.
