How to recover love correctly seize the golden time of compounding, try to redeem love if it can be recovered, it is very hard to manage every love, and we must seek solutions in the face of problems, let's talk about how to redeem love and how to redeem the golden period steps of ex-girlfriends.
1. Emotional upsurge
As the name suggests, the other party's emotions are very emotional. Psychologically speaking, a breakup can be understood as a kind of withdrawal, a withdrawal from a state to which you have become accustomed in the past, and this withdrawal will increase the emotional changes of the person. Moreover, a woman takes the initiative to break up, it must be because she has accumulated too much dissatisfaction and disappointment with you, and the negative emotions have accumulated to the peak, so she will take the initiative to break up with you.
When the word "break up" is spoken, she must have a very happy feeling that she has finally gotten rid of you, and will never want to see you again!! Notice that the emotional upsurge during this period is the high level of her negative emotions, such as that she is very tired of you, rejects you, and refuses to repeat the same mistakes with you.
It can be seen that this period is very unsuitable for compounding. But many men want to get back together during this period, which is completely contrary to the woman's ideas, she will naturally turn on the defense mechanism, and the resistance will become stronger, making you touch the ashes!
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2. Emotional lull period
No matter how intense a woman's emotions are at the time of the breakup, they will not last for a long time, because the hormones in the human body cannot be secreted at a higher than normal concentration level for a long time, and they will slowly return to normal levels, and the woman's emotions will slowly calm down, and they will no longer reject you abnormally as before.
She may not accept your feelings, but she does not reject your appearance. Although I am very cold to you on the surface, I will still think of my past with you in the middle of the night, with good memories and embarrassing pasts. The woman's emotions are very delicate, and her heart at this time can be described as "mixed tastes".
But this period is still not suitable for reunion, although women no longer reject you, but in a vernacular, it is: don't worry, the fire hasn't come yet, wait for her to "precipitate" again.
3. Emotional warm-up period
The obvious manifestation of women in this period is that they are no longer immersed in the pain of falling out of love, no longer rejecting feelings, but slowly coming out of the shadows of the past and starting normal interpersonal interactions. She may accept to chat with you occasionally as a regular friend, and she will start to participate in all kinds of parties, try to meet new people of the opposite sex, find new partners, and post positive moments and beautiful selfies.
This period is more suitable for getting back together, because women can accept chatting with you, which is tantamount to giving you the opportunity to get back together, and women don't reject feelings anymore!
4. Emotional transformation period
If you missed the previous period, when a woman's emotions come to this stage, she has completely let go of you, completely forgotten the previous relationship, and even has a new love. At this time, the entanglement is not only useless, but makes the other party feel that you are a slug who can't get rid of you, and they are even more disgusted with you. Therefore, sometimes letting go is not only fulfilling the other party, but also letting go of yourself.
After analyzing the emotional changes of women after breaking up, you will find that the third stage is the best time to get back together, but unfortunately, many people can't wait and repair it prematurely, and some people hesitate and let the opportunity be lost in vain.
Many people can't even control their emotions well after being broken up, let alone judging each other soberly and rationally, after all, if you want to make an accurate judgment, it is a test of a man's love quotient and emotional intelligence. If you're not completely sure, you'll often make the wrong analysis and make the situation worse.
Steps to get your ex-girlfriend back in the golden period
1. Generally, three to six months after a breakup is the golden time to get back your girlfriend. And no matter what the reason for the breakup, the woman generally can't withstand the man's stalking.
2. If the woman is very firm and decisive when breaking up, then the man must leave a perfect impression on the woman, and he must be generous.
3. For a short period of time after the breakup, you can ignore it for a while, and then care for her from a certain day, greet her from morning to night, and let her forget you.
4. Just stalking, during this period, you must always pay attention to the opposite sex around her, although you can't stop her from meeting new friends of the opposite sex, but you can also be present every time she meets friends of the opposite sex.
5. In the end, girls have to be coaxed, and the man should take the initiative to admit his mistakes, whether he is wrong or not, anyway, it is right to admit his mistakes first. I wish you success in getting your girlfriend back.
The best golden period to get your girlfriend back is the first week after a breakup. During this period, you can express your guilt and remorse to your girlfriend and make her feel that you have not forgotten her and your past. At the same time, you should also leave time and space for both parties to calm down, do not blindly contact her or forcibly find her, but should wait for her to take the initiative to contact you, so that she can feel your intentions and attention more.
The second golden period to get your girlfriend back is the first month after the breakup. During this period, what you need to do is to analyze the reasons for your breakup and give a solution, so that she can see your plans and efforts for the future, so that she can feel your sincerity and love for her again. At the same time, you should also give yourself and her some time and space, don't rush to go too fast, and don't be anxious to affect the emotions of both parties.
The third golden period to get your girlfriend back is from the second to the third month after the breakup. During this period, you need to prove your worth and sincerity through various efforts, such as taking the initiative to break some bad habits that led to your breakup, or caring for her and providing practical help in her life. At the same time, you also have to remember to keep your own life and your circle of friends, and don't limit yourself to her, so that she can see your independence and maturity.
