What if the girl you like can't make an appointment? Teach you a psychological trick that people can't refuse, and greatly improve the success rate of dating girls.
For example, if you visit a friend's house and a friend asks you if you want to drink, you may say no. But if a friend asks, "What kind of coffee and black tea do you drink?"
At this time, you may say, "I'll have coffee."
You didn't drink it, but why did you choose coffee involuntarily? This is the core of psychological psychology, allowing others to enter into the framework you preset in advance to achieve your goal.
Because there is a subconscious in the human brain, when faced with complex choices, we often blank our brains and make random mechanical responses.
It's like you want to ask a girl to go to the movies. If you come up, you say, "Let's go to the movies tonight, OK?"
Then the other party will have at least a 50% chance of not going. For example, she will reply: "I have to work overtime today, or I am too tired today."
Because you set the scope of the other party's choice to go or not to go. On the other hand, if you change your settings, for example, you can ask: "There's a new movie recently that is very interesting. I guess you must like it. Do you want to go to see it tonight or Saturday night?"
You see, at this time, his choice is limited to go tonight or Saturday, so that the probability of the other party's consent will rise to at least 80%.