When a couple quarrels, they should think about the reason calmly and find out the reason for their conflict, so that they can fundamentally solve the problem. When they quarrel with their wife and stop talking, you might as well coax her and ask the reason.
You can amuse your wife, take a step back to soften the relationship, and say some humorous and funny words to ease the atmosphere. The two people who can become a husband and wife as a result of getting along all year round must have very deep feelings, and they must cherish each other's feelings for each other. As for the relationship between two stable people, the way to recover after a quarrel is the most important. For the male side, it must be the active side. At this time, it is necessary to make good methods and plans according to the wife's character. You can amuse your wife first. When you are in a good mood, your heart will naturally open. Or step back and take the initiative to talk to your wife. If you step back at this time, he will also step back, then you two will naturally make up. Or if you are humorous enough, you can say something anti relaxing. After the atmosphere is relaxed, you can slowly admit your mistake, even if it is not your fault. But girls will want you to admit your mistake first. After you admit your mistake, he will also become soft. It is natural for both sides to admit their mistakes and make peace.
1. Find the reason from yourself first
When my wife ignores me, I first find the reason from myself. Is it because I didn't follow the family rules set by my wife? Or is it because I speak in a bad tone? Or did he hurt his wife carelessly? Or was he angry because he didn't hand in his card? In short, we should carefully find the reason from ourselves.
2. Watch your wife's mood
When your wife ignores you, you should pay attention to her subtle changes, including whether there is any change in her commuting time, whether it is because of the heavy workload in the class, tired and unwilling to talk, or because of other factors... I believe that if you observe your wife so carefully, she may talk to you.
3. Find the wife's colleague to understand the situation
When your wife doesn't pay attention to you, you can ask your wife's good colleagues about her performance in class and whether the workload has increased recently. People always talk to others when they are in a bad mood, so you will certainly find useful information for you.
4. Actively do housework
When your wife doesn't care about you, you should take the initiative to undertake some housework at home, and do housework when your wife is in front of you. Although you don't usually do it, because you are not good at housework, sometimes you will make some jokes in front of your wife, and her smile will create conditions for your next communication, right?
5. Communication
Pick a suitable time for both of you, find a good place or at home, sit down with your wife face to face, have a good communication, pay attention to your attitude, be gentle, and open your wife's heart. This is what a qualified husband should do.
6. Couples need to understand each other
In the marriage life, the couple live together, enjoying the dull and happiness. There is no difficulty between husband and wife. When encountering some small problems, one party must first be soft, understand each other, and consider problems from the other's standpoint. Only in this way can the husband and wife live a harmonious life and prosper.
7. Make your wife happy
There are many ways to do this. For example, if you want to make your wife happy materially by buying gifts, of course, it should be based on a stable material foundation. Otherwise, coaxing your wife may make your wallet bleed. Of course, you can also take your wife out to play, but it should be based on the fact that your wife is willing to take care of you. If your wife doesn't listen to what you say, you can't say it any more.
8. You can take a step back to soften the relationship
Or when the relationship between two people is very anxious, you can step back and talk to him first to soften your attitude. First, admit your mistake to the girl. At this time, the girl will also reflect when she sees your mistake. Is there something wrong with her? When two people calm down and reflect on their mistakes, it will be easier to make up. Show him some good manners. Then I will recognize the mistake with him. But he made it clear why he quarreled this time, and why? At this time, the woman will surely realize that she is also wrong. After both of them reveal their true feelings, it is not a problem to make up.
9. You can say something humorous
Of course, if you are very humorous in real life. You can also say something when the relationship is in a stalemate. Funny things to ease the atmosphere, funny words. When your wife can't resist the temptation of your jokes and smiles. This reconciliation plan is half the success. Two people sat quietly on the sofa and began to reflect on the problems of both sides. After apologizing to each other and reflecting on their own mistakes, the two people began to feel that it was their own reasons that led to these quarrels. I felt sorry for the other person in my heart, and then I laughed at your jokes. This quarrel was solved perfectly.
As the saying goes, it is normal to quarrel at the end of the bed. It is abnormal for two people not to have conflicts and quarrels, but it is important to make up in time after a quarrel. It is suggested that we should calm down and think about it. In the cold war, we should avoid emotional intensification. We should speak less and not speak more to avoid hurtful words. During this period, both of them are very sensitive, and they are easy to get into trouble if they speak ill of each other.
When a couple quarrels, both of them will inevitably affect their mood because of each other. Laughter is a better antidepressant and the strongest aphrodisiac. For a business relationship, the happiness you share together is very important. Make him laugh, laugh with him, this is a beautiful experience for you both. If you want to maintain this marriage for a long time, keep it fresh for a long time, and make each other laugh, then everything will be solved.
