Since when, more and more young people like to say "I'm very homestead".
It seems that if you stay at home, you can enjoy the happiness of being alone, and you have the advantage of not being sociable.
As the saying goes, "Small seclusion in the wild, big seclusion in the city."
The really powerful person is not staying at home, but walking into a busy place, can still remain "alone", and has the courage to be unique and dare to speak with strength.
"Residence" should be a state of life, not a reason to escape from reality. If you want to change your destiny, you should go out of the house and learn to interact with others.
People who become better and better often learn the following "four skills" and become hermits in the downtown with ease in the complex social environment.
The first skill: thick skin.
When I was young, my family lived in the mountains. On the day of going to the market, my mother often picked up the vegetables from home and sold them in the market.
Aunt Zhang, the next door neighbor, is a hardworking person. She has more than one mu of vegetable garden at home.
One day, Aunt Zhang took her mother's hand and said, "Help me, sell all the vegetables in the garden."
Mother said, "Aunt Zhang, you can pick vegetables and sell them on the market."
Aunt Zhang said, "I'm afraid of being laughed at and meeting acquaintances."
It turned out that Aunt Zhang was thin skinned and worried about being looked down upon when she went to sell vegetables. However, if she doesn't sell vegetables, she can only watch the vegetables in the garden rot.
Thin skinned people are doomed to make no money. People without money must be bad people.
Yan Jiehe said, "What is face? We never want to be shameful when we do big things. We can tear the skin off and throw it on the ground, kick it, and go away with contempt."
People who make money hard don't care about face. For example, "kill cooked" is a cheeky way to make money. In front of acquaintances, deliberately raise the price and reduce gifts, so as to get higher profits.
Of course, "shameless" must have the bottom line of principles, not to use illegal means to make money, nor to undermine social morality.
The second skill: courage.
There was a saying in ancient Rome: "There is no hope without adventure."
You are never willing to take risks. How can you succeed? You see opportunities, but you are never willing to take the initiative to seize them. When will you succeed? If you encounter a little danger, you will back down. Aren't all your previous efforts wasted?
People who are never willing to take risks are often "stuck in their laurels", who fix themselves in one place and remain unmoved.
In your side, there should be someone who likes to speculate in the stock market. Maybe some people make a lot of money by investing in stocks. When you see the success of others, you are ready to move, but you have not acted because you are afraid of failure.
Opportunities and risks coexist. You are afraid of failure, and you are doomed to accomplish nothing.
A good person is not born with a special ability to predict the future, but he can accept new things and dare to be the first person to eat crabs.
The founder of any industry is a great person. While he has made remarkable achievements, he has also suffered a lot. However, the joy of success can offset all the pain.
The third skill: strong ability.
As the saying goes, "A skilled person is brave."
If you are only brave but have no hard skills, you will encounter many difficulties. If you have great ability and courage, you will do anything not blindly take risks, but with a clear mind.
When Wang carpenter in our village was in his thirties, he rented two rooms in the city, bought a lot of electric tools and began to make furniture.
At the beginning, people in the village believed that carpenter Wang was "desperate" and would come back when he failed to start his business. At that time, everyone will wait for a joke.
After many years, carpenter Wang set up a furniture city and bought two houses and a car worth hundreds of thousands.
Why did carpenter Wang succeed? The reason is that he has good craftsmanship, rich work experience and good popularity. With his ability, the success of entrepreneurship is also expected.
Last year, carpenter Wang also set up an engineering team to specially contract the decoration and interior decoration of housing construction.
People who make a good job do not boast, but rely on positive action and achievements to prove it.
People who are good at making money have been working hard to improve their earning skills,
