When we are questioned, satirized, or even humiliated, it is the time when we lose face, especially in public. But how can we get back in such a situation? What is the way for high EQ to face cynicism? Here's how to fight back against cynicism and high EQ.
1. Calm smile
Since the other party comes to pick on you, he is already ready. He is waiting for you to hit him back. As soon as you hit him back, he will start to use his prepared script to continue to tangle with you. Since this is the case, we don't need to directly hit back at him. We win with attitude. He comes to find fault with you. If you don't argue with him, the less anxious you are, the less angry he will be. In fact, he just wants to stimulate you, make you lose your sense, make you lose your attitude, and keep your eyes on him, Even calmly smiled at him and said, "What else? Then? What else do you want to say at one time? What else do you know? Say it, everyone is there." The more you are like this, the more you look down on this matter, and are ready to take over the pot. Your pattern is above the other party. If the other party wants to continue pestering, he will be more like a clown.
2. Exaggerated response
Exaggerate response means that when the other side questions and satirizes you, you can ask more questions in the direction of his questions, so that the other side will feel ashamed. For example, when the other party sees that you are dressed well, You can exaggerate your response by saying, "Oh, I'm so well dressed, haven't I earned less recently?" You can also exaggerate your response, "I'm very bored recently, less than 100 million yuan a year. Now I live in a large villa of 2000 square meters, and I have several nannies at home, and I have a team of more than 200 people. Every day I pay several million yuan." You will continue to exaggerate in his direction, In this case, he is embarrassed to talk about you again.
When being satirized and questioned by others, you can use the above three moves to get back at the past. I believe that the other person will be unable to speak and show your wisdom.
