The online love chat with each other is very hot, but many people do not know what to do after meeting, do not know how to chat, the whole atmosphere is also quite awkward, so how to do the online love for the first time? How can we eliminate the embarrassment? Let's teach you some moves.
1. Highlight advantages and create attraction
Online chat can't just stay on the topics you chat online. You should also timely send out some signals to show your advantages, so that the other party has expectations of you. You should know that any love is attracted, not pursued. Why do many girls prefer men who are relatively quiet but excellent? Because these men constantly take the initiative to show their talents on various occasions, some girls will be fascinated by his talents. We can show our talents when we show them to our online lovers, suggesting that we have some talents.
2. Create substantive connections
The so-called substantive connection is not only to stay at the level of your usual love talk, but also to let the other party slowly enter your real world from the online chat world, so that the other party can understand what you do and your life. Slowly, the other person will feel your life as if they were on the spot, and you will constantly understand the other person's real life, so that you will not be embarrassed when creating opportunities to meet quickly. So don't just stay in the virtual of online love, but enter into real life. You can help each other according to the needs and advantages of each other, and each other should have a realistic contact.
3. Create opportunities and meet offline
The offline appointment is called offline closing by many people, which means that it is better to meet offline after chatting online for thousands of times. Only offline meeting can truly open up trust, otherwise, no matter how beautiful the cognition established online, offline meeting will always be separated by a layer of window paper. So when you meet offline, you can create a good scene by understanding the other person. In such a scene, many of your words and preparations are based on the understanding of the other person. In this way, the other person will feel as if they had met you at first sight and hate meeting you too late.
In online love, we can't always stay in the virtual world. It's useless to chat online. We need to find ways to create substantive connections, highlight our own advantages and create attraction. At the same time, we need to create offline meetings to give each other a chance to understand him well.
