When someone close to us encounters an inferiority complex, how can we encourage him to move forward? How can we encourage him to say warm words to his heart? So that he can regain his power? Here are three moves for you.
1. Encourage the other party with hidden values
It is to let the other party see the other side of things. It turns out that they still have such hidden value. For example, the other side didn't get a good score this time, You can also say to him, "Since you are aware of the problem that led to such a result, then we will solve the problem, we will find the root of the problem, and believe that you will certainly do better in the next exam than this time, and since you are aware of the problem, we will become better and better in the future." So you should make him realize that it is not important to have setbacks today, The important thing is that he just found the reason for the defeat, and can eliminate the reason, so that he can achieve better success in the future.
2. Encourage the other party with potential prospect
It means that you should make the other party realize that the other party still has great potential. For example, the other party has been criticized by the leader and is in an inferiority complex. You can encourage the other party to "Why do the leaders criticize you? Don't the leaders care about you? Do they care about you? Why do the leaders criticize you if they don't care about you? Wait for you to survive and die. I believe that the expectations of the leaders will become your next motivation. You must find ways to approach the expectations of the leaders, or even exceed their expectations, and you will become a red man around the leaders."
3. Paradoxical encouragement
The so-called paradoxical encouragement method is to turn shortcomings into advantages, let him see that this shortcoming is actually his distinctive feature, and let him realize that the problem itself may not be a problem, or even an advantage. For example, if the other person lacks self-confidence, you can say to him, "You are quite confident about your lack of self-confidence. Not everyone can do this. Not everyone can be as confident as you.".
You can use the above three moves to rejuvenate the other party when they feel inferior or when they feel they have no advantage.
