Why do men sometimes say that the reason why they have some very intimate behaviors with a woman is because of the silent support of the other party when they clearly take the initiative?
Is this statement purely a sophistry, or does it indeed have some truth?
Not to say all, but at least when men put forward the following three requirements, women do not refuse, in fact, they are giving each other opportunities.
Maybe it's because of love for men, maybe it's because of not rejecting what happens to each other!
1. Do not refuse to ask for contact information
In contemporary society, though the ethos has been open. Men and women also have some common contacts and communication under many normal circumstances, but girls are still reserved and rational. They understand what they want and what they are doing, which is a kind of cognition and skill that adults basically have.
When they face the opposite sex that they don't feel, they will also know how to refuse the other party's requests that go beyond the ordinary social aspects for the sake of safety and self-protection.
For example, in the face of a heterosexual who only meets once and has little understanding and communication foundation, they may not exchange phone numbers and WeChat.
Because there is no need to invite a person of the opposite sex who has no special preference to you into your life, it may cause a lot of unnecessary troubles and changes.
If, on the contrary, they do not refuse to ask for contact information from a strange opposite sex, it means that she feels good about the person in all aspects, or at least accepts the other person as a friend.
This is also a kind of good feeling, which also means that the magnetic fields of two people are relatively similar.
Conclusion:
The times have changed considerably. It is no doubt outdated to look at the ideas and behaviors of contemporary men and women regarding emotion and gender relations from the old perspective.
You might as well take it easy. Protect the way you want to protect your feelings, and respect the choices of others with an attitude of understanding and respect.
At least, don't criticize and moral kidnapping at will. After all, it's someone else's life!
In other words, as long as a woman is willing to take the above three ways to accept a man's pickup and intimacy, it means that she also has a preliminary liking for the other party and is willing to try to develop a more intimate relationship with the other party!
As for this decision, is it a serious desire to have a relationship that can develop for a long time, or is it a pastime of instant gratification? It will be different from person to person, and the decision and behavior of the other party will be viewed differently.
