Some relatives cannot be seen when returning home after the Spring Festival, or they will have endless consequences. Because it's easy to get into trouble if you go too close. So which relatives can't be seen at home for the Spring Festival? Now let's introduce it to you.
1. Snobbish relatives
You have grown up to be sensible. You should also know which relatives in your family are snobs. For example, when your family was defeated in the past, who looked down on you and were unwilling to help you. I have been working in front of my good relatives and flattering them. Now your family is doing well, and he has a lot of flattery to you. You should never enjoy this feeling, because how high he praises you, how deep he will step on you when you lose power in the future, and you should not expect such a person to help you, he will also take more things from you in the future. And if you are too close to such relatives, you will draw a clear line between those ordinary relatives.
2. Relatives who like moral kidnapping
Some people like moral kidnapping very much. They think that if you are good now, you have to pull your brothers and sisters, and you have to come back to help these relatives. You can't live without your own efforts and the resources and noble people around you today, so why do you have to come back to help him when you live well? Did he help you when you needed him? Encountered such relatives said that they had made a relatively miserable thing to fool the past and it was over.
3. Gossiping relatives
Some relatives especially like to chew their tongues, which is the kind of people who are afraid of the chaos of the world. They especially like to gossip behind others' backs. If you are close to such relatives, you may be identified by others in the future. When others hear rumors, they don't know where they came from, and they may think of you. So don't get too close to such a person. It's easy to let others suspect him.
4. Relatives who do not know how to repay their kindness and always extend their hands to you
The relatives themselves are poor because of their own reasons, so they have all kinds of troubles and problems. You can't help them without bottoms. You can't help them at all. So why is it called emergency instead of poverty? Some people are poor for a reason. You can do some ideological work for him, but the financial and material support will be enough. You can't let yourself invest in the market indefinitely. You have to stop losing in time, so this kind of relatives should stay away.
