Someone speaks ill of you behind your back. You have heard of it. How can you deal with it with high EQ? Many of us hear people say bad things about us behind their backs, which are hard to hear and do not conform to the facts, so we have to argue with the other party, or even do it. In fact, it is not necessary, because you do not know whether the other party is the initiator or follower. Generally speaking, you have two situations. The first is that it has a purpose of its own. By attacking you, it can attract more people to secondment you. The second situation is that he is following the trend. He doesn't know the truth of the matter, but just heard some gossip. So when you are not sure what kind of role the other person is, you may hurt some people by mistake and make yourself narrow. So what should we do if someone speaks ill of you behind your back? What are the ways to deal with high EQ? Give you three moves.
First move: public law
Instead of letting others talk about you behind your back, you might as well put things straight out and let everyone talk together. In fact, when you face the matter directly, it will be over. For example, if you are a family member, someone in the office talks about you and a female colleague. When the female colleague is also present, you can directly mention "someone said that we have an affair, and I wish you could see me one day." You can use this way of joking. After saying that, everyone will laugh and pass.
The above is a high EQ way for others to speak ill of you behind your back. I hope the above three tips can help you solve the problems around you and let others have no bad thoughts about you.
