How can we identify whether a person is hypocritical? A hypocrite usually has these three characteristics. If you see them clearly, you should try to keep a distance from them, or you will be harmed sooner or later.
First of all, we should understand why we should stay away from hypocrites. Generally, there are two reasons: 1. hypocrites will take advantage of your kindness, betray your sincerity, and play with your trust; 2. A hypocrite who harms you will never let you see it. When you know it, you have been harmed by him. So we should keep a distance from them.
So how can we identify whether the people around us are hypocritical? It depends on whether he has revealed these three characteristics:
Feature 1: Everyone is good on the surface, but people are wrong behind the scenes
As the saying goes, "No matter what is right or wrong in front of you, no matter how long or short you are after you." But some people are different. They say bad things about someone in front of you, and after that person appears, they try to praise others. This is typical hypocrisy.
Feature 2: On the surface, there is love and righteousness, but in fact, there is only interest in the eyes
On the surface, I am with you to make friends with you, which makes you think that he attaches great importance to friendship and righteousness, but in fact, it is to seek improper benefits from you after getting closer to you. Even if you pay more later, give more back, and give more to him, he feels reasonable, because he once pulled you, and one day you are not so good to him, If he doesn't feed him back any more, he will think you are a problem, and even make up old scores. To test whether such a person is sincere, you can ask him for help in matters other than interests to see whether he is really willing to help.
Feature 3: Be firmer than anyone when making commitments, and be more consistent when implementing
Especially in the business field, when I make a promise to you, I clap my chest to make a guarantee and say a lot, but finally there is no result. When I implement the docking, I can't find anyone. This is also a typical manifestation of hypocrisy.
In the future, when we meet people with the above three performances, we must keep a distance. These are the performances of hypocrites. You won't know if you are fooled by them.
