When your relatives and friends are ill and hospitalized, what can you say when you go to visit them so that they can feel relieved and let them feel that you have brought warmth? Here are 4 moves for you.
1. Show your care and concern at the beginning
Don't say "I'm on business today, and I'll drop in to see you." When you drop in, the other person will think you are not valued at all, and you won't leave a good impression on the other person if you come here today. Even if you really stop by, you can't say you stopped by. You should express that you came here specially for the other party. You can say, "I've heard that you are ill, and I've always wanted to come, but I haven't been free. This time I came here specially to see how you are recovering." When you say this, the other party is very relieved and feels your warmth.
2. Give examples of friends who have suffered from similar diseases and cases of rapid improvement to encourage them
For example, if the other party has a gynecological disease, you can tell him that many women have this disease at this age. My colleague also had this problem some time ago, but after surgery, he recovered within a month. Now nothing has happened. This is to give confidence and encouragement to the other party.
3. Good at relieving boredom and teasing
You should let the other party relax. For example, you can describe the other party's crisis as a rare opportunity. For example, you can say, "Actually, I envy you. I want to hide in the hospital for a few days. At least you can read books and watch movies now. I'm busy at home now. I don't have any time to spare. I'm almost exhausted." Do you mean to convey to the other party that this is still a valuable time to be alone, Instead, let the other party feel that this is still an opportunity.
4. Farewell encouragement invitation
Before leaving, in order to send a signal to the other party that the disease will soon get better and better, you can launch some encouraging invitations. For example, you can say something like, "By the way, my wife's unit has issued two drama tickets some time ago. When you are well, we will go to see it together. It is exactly a month later. I will go to see you at home in a few days and take good care of you." Does that make the place completely relaxed. If the other party's relatives are around, they will also like you very much. Because what you said after you came makes the patient happy, and the faster the patient is happy, the better.
