Why do some people speak in silence when they speak? If we don't master the skills of chatting when communicating with others, it is easy to have awkward conversations. What should we do when we encounter awkward conversations? How to find the topic? If you want to get rid of awkward conversation, you can get rid of it easily.
First of all, we should understand the reasons behind the awkward conversation, which are generally the following two reasons:
Reason 1: It's easier to be self congratulatory
The self congratulating person always brings up topics that he is very familiar with. Based on the topics he brings up, he never considers whether everyone is interested or not. It is hard for everyone to participate in such self congratulatory chat. Since it is difficult for everyone to participate, it is difficult to continue this topic.
Reason 2: Wrong time to interrupt
When someone is talking about a topic in some aspect and you are still in high spirits, you suddenly enter into a new topic. Who dares to answer it? The person who connects with you will draw a clear line with the person who just talked, so it is difficult to continue the conversation if you interrupt at the wrong time, or even create embarrassment.
So how can we prevent embarrassment? How to prevent awkward conversation? Here are two suggestions for you.
Suggestion 1: Be good at talking about topics of common interest
When chatting one-on-one, we should talk about topics of common interest, but how to find common topics? Of course, you need to do some homework in advance, have a certain understanding of the other party, be good at observing what the other party says, and what they show, wear, including the other party's circle of friends. What others are willing to show is what they want you to see. Since they want you to see, you can't turn a blind eye to them. When talking about these topics, they will talk to you endlessly.
Suggestion 2: find opinion leaders
Finding opinion leaders is suitable for one to many chat, and opinion leaders lead more topics. The so-called opinion leader is that everyone has different characteristics. If you want to take care of everyone's feelings, you can mention any person who has been outstanding in any aspect in the past, and what kind of honor he has obtained in some aspect. So if you want everyone to speak, you need to know everyone, and point out his bright spots, so that he can play the role of opinion leader.
