A girl who is hot and cold to you shows that she doesn't really like you. Maybe she takes you as a spare tire. She likes you, but it is not enough. She hopes to maintain an ambiguous relationship with you. She doesn't want others to be nice to you, but she doesn't want herself to be nice to you.
Boys who meet such girls must keep their eyes bright, stay away from her in time and maintain normal social relations. Maybe this kind of girls is not only for you, but also for you. They may be enthusiastic when they need help from boys, and cold when they don't need help.
Many people say that women are very sensitive, which is not wrong at all. Most girls are suspicious in their feelings. The more they love the boy, the more they will domineer over him, hoping to occupy all his time and energy.
Why do I feel my girlfriend is hot and cold to me? Some things may be happening. You should pay enough attention to understand the abnormality of feelings early and ease the relationship between two people, so that the relationship can go smoothly in the long run. Now let's understand the reason why girlfriend is hot and cold.
1. Play hard to get
No one is born confident in love. Girls are more insecure in love, so they will rely more on men in love. However, due to girls' cautious nature, they are more passive in love, which makes them often not take the initiative to express their needs. It's more annoying than chasing after each other. In order to keep boys in line, playing hard to get is obviously more suitable for girls.
Therefore, in the eyes of boys, they clearly think that the other side likes themselves, but they are often unpredictable.
2. You are not the best choice
To put it bluntly, you are the spare tire. You may be involved with other people while being ambiguous with you. This is just for girls to maximize their own interests.
It's because you still have value, but are reluctant to give up other options, so it's a drag. When she thinks you are not so important, she will leave when you are no longer profitable. Such girls should leave as soon as possible. Since there is no result, don't continue to waste it.
3. Dissatisfied with you
In her opinion, your performance did not meet her expectations. She felt that you did not love her enough, and wanted to play a small temper to attract your attention. Such girls are harmless. They are just emotional. Isn't it normal for girls to suddenly get angry and change their faces? So as long as boys admit their mistakes seriously, it is not a problem to behave better and have a better attitude.
When a girl is sometimes warm and sometimes cold to a boy, here are some suggestions to consider:
1. Keep calm: It is very important to keep calm when the girl's attitude towards you changes. Don't be too anxious or anxious, as this may complicate the situation.
2. Understanding her background and situation: understanding the background and situation of a girl, such as her work, life and family, can help you better understand her behavior and emotional changes.
3. Communication: Communication with girls is a good way to solve this situation. You can ask her if she has anything unhappy or if there is anything you can do to help her. At the same time, you can also tell her your feelings and thoughts.
4. Give each other some space: In some cases, girls may need some space to deal with their emotions or things. In this case, you can give the other person some time and space to deal with the problem by herself.
5. Establish good interaction: establishing good interaction can help you better understand each other's thoughts and feelings. You can try to establish more in-depth communication with girls, such as watching movies, eating meals or participating in an activity together.
It requires patience, understanding and communication to deal with the situation where girls are sometimes warm and sometimes cold to you. Knowing her situation and background as much as possible, giving her some time and space to deal with her own problems, and establishing good interaction can help you better understand and deal with this situation.
