The difference between a girl using you as a friend and a boyfriend is mainly shown in the following aspects:
1. General method: If girls regard you as a friend, they may communicate with you more casually and naturally. If girls like you, they may pay more attention to your words and deeds and pay more attention to details.
2. Behaviour: If girls treat you as friends, they may get along with you more freely and naturally. If girls have a good opinion of you, they may pay more attention to their own image and behavior, so as to leave a good impression on you.
3. Intercourse arrangement: If a girl treats you as a friend, she may arrange her time more casually and freely. If a girl likes you, she may be more willing to spend time with you or pay more attention to your dating arrangements.
4. Verbal expression: If a girl treats you as a friend, she may express her thoughts and feelings more directly and simply. If a girl likes you, she may express her feelings more implicitly and implicitly.
The above performances are just some common situations and cannot represent the thoughts and behaviors of all girls. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect girls' feelings and choices, and not to force or over interpret their behaviors.
The difference between girls treating you as a friend and liking you
1. Whether you are afraid of image
If you are a friend, you will act recklessly in front of you, and be crazy with you, regardless of your image! It is also possible to do such movements as picking feet, buttons and nose excrement, which will look careless in front of you. But if you like her, she will be shy and reserved when she sees you. She will speak softly and will not speak loudly. She will show her excellent side; Like you is also in front of you many times, attracting your attention, but pretending to be cold.
2. Will you ask whether the hair and clothes look good
If I just regard you as a friend, when I am with you, I will ask you if your clothes and hair look good, and let you give her advice. I hope you can give targeted suggestions as a friend. But if she really likes you, then she won't ask you whether my clothes and hair look good today? Because she is embarrassed to ask you that. She felt that she would lose confidence in front of you.
3. Will you talk about you in front of others
If a woman treats you as a friend, she will not often talk about you in front of others. The topic of conversation will always be the person she is interested in. But if a woman really likes you, she will often talk about you intentionally or unintentionally when she gets along with others, see what you like to eat and do, and feel nervous when hearing your name.
4. Will you take care of you when you are sick
The woman who likes you will really care about you. Every time you are sick, she will accompany you and take you to the hospital to buy medicine. But if you are just a good friend, she may buy you medicine and say a few words of concern when you are sick. Some people just give you a few words of concern, and they just let you have more rest and drink more hot water, but they have no actual action.
5. Will you take the initiative to contact you
She doesn't take the initiative to contact you every time when she treats you as a friend, and when you take the initiative to find her, she doesn't respond to you warmly, or doesn't return after a long time, saying that she is busy and has no time to reply to you. But if she really likes you, she will think of you all the time, take the initiative to contact you, and strive for the opportunity to meet you; When you send her a message, most of the time you must reply at the first time.
The girl said to be friends, which means she has no feeling for you and doesn't like you.
There are three situations:
One possibility is to refuse you tactfully without hurting you.
This situation can be judged as a sign, that is, to be friends with you, but later you asked her to have dinner or sent her a message, and she refused or was very perfunctory, which means that being friends is just a euphemism for rejecting you.
One possibility is that I don't know you yet, and I'm not sure whether to reject you or accept you for the time being. I want to continue to wait and see to increase mutual understanding.
Let's try to be friends first. If we feel that we are suitable for each other after getting along, we will develop into a love relationship and become boyfriend and girlfriend. If we are not suitable for each other after getting along, we will become ordinary friends.
This feature is that she keeps a distance with you as a friend, and may chat or even eat with you. But when you send some valuable gifts, she often refuses. When she needs help, she also tries to avoid bothering you for fear of misunderstanding. She seldom asks you to do something on her own initiative, but when you do something for her, she will accept some, and some will refuse.
The third situation is to use you as a spare tire.
It is similar to the second situation that we keep friendly relationship with you, but the difference is that we enjoy your kindness to her, but we don't make commitment and response to you.
She will accept your gift or help, or even ask you to do something for her. She will hang you up to make you think there is hope, but when you go further, she will keep a distance from you. When you want to give up, she suddenly tugs at you twice to give you something sweet, but never talks about your relationship and future.
This kind of advice tells you to recognize the reality as soon as possible, love the wrong person, and let go as soon as possible.
