To provide emotional value is to use your words and deeds to bring others a feeling of satisfaction and comfort. The actual operation includes but is not limited to praise, companionship, comfort, encouragement and support. In short, it is the behavior that has a positive effect on the emotions of others.
When it comes to emotional value, it can't be separated from emotion. There are positive emotions and negative emotions. Positive emotions make us happy, happy, joyful, comfortable, surprised, and moved. On the contrary, negative emotions bring us loneliness, guilt, worry, fear, inferiority, as well as anxiety of not being recognized and frustration after fruitless efforts!
If a person's mood goes into a negative state, there will be anxiety, insecurity, anger, and other negative emotions in his heart. Anxiety state will appear only when people feel that they are going to suffer losses. For example, you feel that girls are unwilling to pay attention to you, and have no clue about establishing attraction. At this time, men are prone to anxiety, and men are used to solving problems, When negative emotions appear, they should be eliminated immediately, and they will want to immediately grasp something to ease their anxiety!
So if you want to create emotional value for women, you must first be in a relaxed state:
1. Humor
We all know that humor is a necessary condition to attract girls, but people cannot enter the humor state when they are nervous, so it is easier to enter the humor state when they are relaxed!
2. Have a sense of purpose
A man with a sense of hope will naturally have a goal, while a woman likes a man who can give her direction, and does not like to talk to her about everything every day!
3. Game mentality
When a man can enjoy everything around him, women will become one of the objects he enjoys. Women become fun instead of persistent goals. You will be more brave to tease women because you are in a relaxed state, which will make you look more challenging and women will be more interested in you!
Providing emotional value refers to bringing positive emotional experience and emotional support to girls in the process of communication. Here are some ways to provide emotional value to girls:
1. Listening and caring: sincerely listen to girls' feelings and needs, express their concern and concern, and let them feel understood and valued.
2. Emotional support: comfort, encourage and support them when they are depressed or troubled, so that they feel that someone can rely on them.
3. Emotional expression: express their love, appreciation and praise for them, so that they can feel the feelings of being loved and valued.
4. Companion and escort: accompany them through sad or difficult times when they need to, and provide emotional support and comfort.
5. Laughter and humor: Through humor and laughter, they can bring a relaxed and joyful atmosphere and improve their emotional state.
6. Respect and understanding: respect girls' feelings and personal space, understand their ideas and needs, and establish a relationship of mutual respect.
7. Create good memories together: participate in common activities, create good memories, and let girls feel the joy and happiness with you.
It is important to treat girls with sincerity and care according to their personality and preferences, respect their feelings and needs, and establish stable and healthy emotional connections.
When a girl tells you that she needs emotional value, you must fail in several aspects:
1. Timely provide positive feedback
In life, the most frequent emotional value appears in feedback.
As long as both parties have contact and chat, there is no complete initiative or passivity. Most of the time, it seems that the other party actively shares small things, but in fact it is her request for the emotional value of your positive feedback.
She sent you a selfie before going out. You can really pass it by, but she would like you to make a serious evaluation. Of course, praise would be better.
It may not matter to you that she shares a boring incident with you, but she prefers you to be happy and angry with her instead of turning a blind eye
2. Actively express the importance of girls to themselves and bravely express their love
Especially in the middle and later stages of love, boys will feel that their feelings have entered a dull period, and their mood and romance have also been reduced by more than half. Old husbands and wives have nothing to be affectant about.
But in the world of many girls, she still needs passion and clear love when in love. When you really give girls a sense of security, girls will reduce their worries about gains and losses in the process of getting along, but will be more considerate.
"The best appearance of a person is loved", especially for girls.
Therefore, to express your love boldly, girls will not think you are pretentious, nor unhappy. She may be disgruntled on the surface, but she must secretly rejoice behind your back, and the emotional value will be filled in an instant.
