At first sight, it is a girl who is rich and raised. In real life, children who have been "rich and raised" since childhood show confidence and security at a glance.
1. Don't be greedy for small gains
Although many girls label themselves as independent and generous, when facing specific problems, their inner narrowness and philistinism are often seen everywhere. Especially in gender relations, poor girls will take it for granted that boys pay the bill, otherwise it is not a gentleman. But for rich girls, boys' payment will cause them a psychological burden, because the education they have been exposed to from childhood to adulthood does not allow them to take advantage of small things.
2. Broad thinking
The so-called broad thinking, in short, is to see the world, not panic when things happen, and calm down. For example, Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions, when she first entered the Jia Family, was also shocked by the wealth and grace of the Jia Family. However, she did not panic and lost her sense of propriety. Instead, she carefully observed others' words and deeds and won the favor of everyone in the Jia Family.
A person's knowledge is limited. It is impossible to know everything or experience everything. There are always blind spots. At this time, the advantage of being rich highlights, enabling us to resolve the immediate difficulties.
3. Without poor people's thinking
In the traditional education concept, in order to make children form the good habit of being diligent and thrifty from childhood, many parents will inculcate the concepts of "being poor at home" and "not buying expensive things", which will affect children's life. For example, a paid course can improve work skills. When poor girls see the word "pay", they give up the idea and miss the opportunity to improve themselves. But for rich girls, they would rather eat less food and buy less clothes, but also save money to improve their value.
Rich girl characteristics
1. Lively and cheerful personality
The girls who have grown up rich are very confident since childhood and can say anything, which has created their generally cheerful personality. The girls who have grown up rich are relatively calm in heart, do not lack a sense of security, and treat people less extreme. The "rich" here refers to the spiritual wealth of children. For example, Baba has good feelings, seldom quarrels, and has a warm family environment. If the child's family is not warm, then the character will basically be introverted. So parents can take some time to accompany their children. Even reading a simple story before going to bed can make her feel your love.
2. Rich vision
Parents should never leave their children at home because they are young, and they will not let them go anywhere. This will only limit the children's vision. When they grow up, they may be cheated by a lollipop. The "rich" here is to enrich children's vision, so that children can have a relatively rich knowledge in thought and vision. If there is no time to go out, you can also choose some books with rich content to broaden children's vision and insight.
3. Have independent ideas
Now the society is more complex. For a girl, if she has a subjective consciousness, can firm her own judgment, and will not be confused by others' words, it is a very valuable quality. At this time, "enriching" is to let children participate in activities to cultivate independent consciousness, and fully respect their choices, but it must not be excessive, otherwise it is easy to develop children's arrogant and overbearing character.
What temperament does a rich girl have
1. Focus on quality
When shopping, it is also obvious that rich girls need not only beautiful things, but also good quality. Especially in the choice of skin care products and cosmetics, I have my own ideas.
2. Temperament
It is also said that the rich and adopted women not only strive for excellence in life quality, but also spend a lot of money on culture and education. They will have a unique temperament after long-term edification.
3. Communicate with others in a relaxed manner
The rich adopted daughter will be a little arrogant. This confidence is brought by the long-term superior life, so she will have a good grasp of the relationship with friends, and will not be too close or alienated.