More breakups between lovers will only make the relationship weaker and weaker. Communication between people is a process of getting familiar with each other. The frequent breakup between two people will only make both parties familiar with this feeling. The next time there is conflict, it will become very casual to break up. Of course, this also depends on the situation. Some people break up because of special circumstances, and they can still find their original feelings by going around.
1. May habitually break up
I have seen a passage before, which probably said that the girls kept breaking up with each other, and the boys tried hard to keep them. The last time the girl said goodbye, the boy agreed directly because the boy felt tired. When girls encounter something, they will break up. They are used to threatening each other with breaking up over a long period of time. If two people keep this state, it will only make the relationship break up faster. In the process of communication, we should try not to talk about breaking up. Don't mention this word when we are not forced to. In the emotional world, breaking up is quite a taboo, and our other half may be particularly uncomfortable after hearing it.
2. A whirling love
Some people are separated because of misunderstanding. In fact, there are feelings between two people. When encountering a new relationship, if you can't go on well, you will miss the original one. As long as two people have the opportunity to communicate, it is possible to have another spark, and it is not impossible to make up again. In real life, it's true that after breaking up three or four times, they finally returned to each other. There are even some people who get married and divorced several times with the same person. In the end, I still choose to spend my life with the same person.
3. Love needs nourishment
For most feelings, on and off are fatal, and only a few love can be reconciled. Love needs to be nourished. We should try our best to protect love, not to think about messy things. Opening, closing and closing are just like a folk prescription. They can't cure the hurt left by feelings. If you want to stay with the other party all the time, you must maintain the feelings of the original love.
Opening, closing and merging do not necessarily represent true feelings, it may be because the two sides do not fit each other or lack communication and understanding. The true feelings should be based on mutual respect, trust and support, rather than simple separation and combination.
Of course, sometimes opening and closing can also make two people understand and grow better, but this does not mean that this kind of feeling is real. Real feelings need to be jointly managed and maintained by both parties, need to pay and sacrifice, and need mutual support and understanding.
If a person always experiences on/off/on, then they need to reflect on their own behavior and attitude to see if there are any problems. Perhaps it is because they lack communication and understanding, or because they have not found a suitable partner. In this case, they need to learn to change themselves, improve their emotional intelligence and communication skills, and find suitable partners.
In a word, opening, closing and merging do not necessarily represent true feelings, which need to be jointly operated and maintained by both parties. If you always experience on/off/on, you need to reflect on your own behavior and attitude, find out where the problem lies, and try to change yourself to find a suitable partner.
