If two people are not active in love, the following methods can be considered:
1. Communication: two people can find an appropriate time to sit down and talk about their feelings and ideas, and their expectations and needs for this relationship. When communicating, respect each other's feelings and ideas, try to understand each other's position, so as to better coordinate the relationship.
2. Try to be proactive: If both people are passive, you can try to be proactive. For example, when dating, you can take the initiative to propose activities, or take the initiative to invite the other party to see a movie or go shopping. At the same time, you should also respect the other party's opinions and feelings. If the other party is unwilling to participate in your proposal, you should also understand the other party.
3. Find common interests: two people can try to find common interests, which can increase communication and understanding between each other, and also make two people have more common topics, so that they can communicate more actively.
4. Mutual encouragement and support: two people should encourage and support each other in the relationship, give each other affirmation and praise, let each other feel their importance and value, so that they are more willing to take the initiative.
Falling in love is a matter for both parties. It requires two people to work together, understand and support each other to make the relationship more lasting and stable.
I think it is a very troublesome thing for couples to not take the initiative when they are in love. It is very boring for two introverts to be together. Such a relationship is easy to break. It is better to find an extrovert in a love relationship. The most difficult thing to solve is the differences and differences between the two sides. In general, once two people have a disagreement, it will eventually turn into a violent quarrel. At this time, both sides hurt each other, and the words they say are a kind of hurt to both sides' feelings. Fighting incessantly will not help your feelings in any way, but will only eat your feelings incessantly, and finally lead to only breaking up.
Love is a process of running in with each other. When two people get along with each other, tolerance and understanding are essential. Differences of opinion lead to quarrels. In fact, the most fundamental reason is communication problems. Inappropriate communication will completely distort the demands of each other. Sometimes, even because of improper communication, the content of the argument between two people will shift from the original disagreement to constantly picking out the other's shortcomings and constantly attacking the other. Many people are in such a quarrel, and their feelings gradually disappear.
To avoid such quarrels, the first thing to do is to understand and accept each other's opinions and views. Generally, people who quarrel when they have different opinions think that their views are correct and want to make the other party accept their views. If both people think this way, it is inevitable that they will end up arguing. Only let yourself learn to accept different opinions and respect the other party's suggestions and opinions. Only by doing this, you will not let the other party think you are making trouble without reason and avoid quarreling.
There are thousands of lovers in love, and when many lovers fall in love, boys are very active, but not every couple gets along very well. When some couples fall in love, boys don't take the initiative. What should they do?
1、 Girls take the initiative
A love affair is not caused by the male's initiative, but by the joint efforts of both men and women in the relationship. If a pair of lovers do not take the initiative when they fall in love, then the girl who is the other party in love should take the initiative to attack and move the boy with her love. However, since both of them have fallen in love, the boy must have feelings for the girl. If he does not take the initiative, it may be because of some reasons, or it may be his own personality. At this time, the girl will not be constrained, but will bravely pursue his own love, take the initiative, and take the initiative, It can also let boys see girls' serious attitude towards this relationship.
2、 Communicate actively with your boyfriend
If a boy is not active when a couple falls in love, there may be many reasons. So as a girl, she can actively communicate with the boy, understand his true thoughts, ask him why he does so, find out the reasons in time, and solve the problem as soon as possible, so as to avoid some minor conflicts causing great conflicts, leading to a love breakdown, Then it is very uneconomical. At the same time, when you find the reason why your boyfriend is not proactive, you must carefully communicate your ideas with the other party, so that the two people can expose each other in the process of the couple without concealing anything, and this relationship will also go on for a very long time.
3、 Change a boyfriend
If after a period of love, the boy has not taken the initiative, then the girl should doubt whether the boy has made efforts to this relationship and whether he has devoted himself to his sincere feelings. If after communication with the boy, they find that the two are not so in tune, then the girl can stop the loss in time and leave this unproductive love early, You can also have enough time to find the next relationship.
