It is not certain how long men began to panic in the cold war. Some people panic in a day, and some people panic in a few days. This is a matter that varies from person to person. Don't worry too much. As long as you two can communicate and talk well, don't think too much. If you two can't communicate and talk well, your relationship will become very bad. So, If you have something to say, you must say it and not hide it in your heart. This is wrong. You two should be good at communicating and talking. Don't always be like this. The cold war will not solve the problem. It is better for you two to be good at talking and communicating. Only in this way can things be solved and the relationship between you two can become better, The relationship between the two of you can become better. Therefore, if you have something to say, don't let the cold war go. The cold war can't solve it. You two must have good communication.
To be honest, a week or two of the Cold War is nothing for men. No, but men have been afraid since the Cold War lasted for half a year or even a few months. Even offer to apologize to you.
Why do men choose the cold war:
1、 Let both sides think and reflect.
Most of the time, men will also appear more rational than women when they quarrel. Knowing that such continuous communication will only lead to a lack of good words and aggravate the contradiction. Therefore, the short cold war is the best solution, which is a time for both parties to think and reflect. But women often don't think so. They think that men are narrow-minded, that is, they escape, which makes negative emotions even higher.
2、 What did I do wrong?
This is a common psychological activity of men. Usually, men are slow in thinking, so sometimes his girlfriend is angry and he doesn't know it. Until he scolds him or ignores him completely, men may not realize that they have done something wrong. Although he realized that he was in trouble, he didn't know what he had done wrong, so he had to apologize to his girlfriend all the time. It can be said that this is the most common psychology of men in the early years of the Cold War.
3、 Can avoid quarrels.
When husband and wife quarrel, women are always used to fighting against men with incessant words. It must be known that this will only make the quarrel worse. In order to avoid quarrels, rational men often use silence to deal with them, because they know psychologically that in the face of irrational you, doing so is the only way to resolve disputes.
4、 To resist, I still feel angry.
Of course, if your quarrel is too fierce, or it is obvious that you made a mistake to be unreasonable, then the man will also be angry. The cold war is a way for men to act coquettishly and depressed, so that the other party can realize their importance, but the result is that most men take the initiative to seek peace.
Faced with the men who initiated the Cold War, women would panic when doing so
There will be a cold war between men and women. No one is willing to talk or compromise with anyone. Women should wonder how many days a man can last in the cold war. Of course, this is judged by his character, and he will not contact if he cannot get through.
Most men have male chauvinism. As long as they think they are doing the right thing, they will not compromise with you and admit their mistakes. Therefore, the cold war will last longer in this case. But smart women always have a way to deal with men's cold war, which makes men panic at the beginning.
As a woman, you have had a cold war with your boyfriend for less than ten days. Generally speaking, your boyfriend will think a lot of things clearly during this period of time; Because time can let him digest those unhappy things and let him put down many things.
Under normal circumstances, your boyfriend will think everything in ten days; If he finds that you haven't come to him yet, his heart will begin to miss you; Because after trying to understand something, you will feel lonely without you.
Men are more rational than women when they quarrel. They know that if they continue to communicate like this, they will only speak good words and intensify conflicts. Therefore, the short cold war is the best solution, and it is time for both sides to think and reflect. But women often don't think so. They think that men are narrow-minded, that is, to escape, which makes negative emotions higher and higher.
It is also common for young lovers to have a cold war after quarreling, but the cold war can and cannot last forever, otherwise the relationship will also have problems. A man who really loves you doesn't want to ignore you. When his anger subsides and he calms down, he will probably regret why he ignored you.
After two people quarrel, they can have a cold war, but not too long. Generally, the Cold War lasts for two or three days, or even three or five days. However, if a man quarrels with you and ignores you for two weeks, he may not love you enough and care about you enough. He may even want to break up with you, but he just didn't say it.
In short, in the face of a man who has a cold war with you, a woman must think clearly whether this man is really suitable for you. If not, take this opportunity to break up with men.
