The wife's bowing her head first is not the only reason for the short-lived marriage. The stability and happiness of the marriage relationship need the joint efforts of both parties. Here are some reasons why marriage may not last long:
1. No common goals and values: If the husband and wife do not have the same goals and values, it is easy to have differences and contradictions in life, thus affecting the stability of the marriage relationship.
2. Lack of good communication and understanding: Both husband and wife need to have good communication and understanding, and respect each other's feelings and needs, otherwise misunderstanding and conflict will easily occur, thus affecting the stability of the marriage relationship.
3. Neglect of family responsibilities and obligations: Both husband and wife need to bear family responsibilities and obligations, such as taking care of children, the elderly, etc. If one party neglects these responsibilities and obligations, it is easy to cause dissatisfaction and contradiction of the other party, thus affecting the stability of the marriage relationship.
4. Do not respect each other's personal space and privacy: Both husband and wife need to respect each other's personal space and privacy. If one of them interferes too much in the other's life and work, it is easy to cause dissatisfaction and contradiction of the other party, thus affecting the stability of the marriage relationship.
It should be noted that the stability and happiness of the marriage relationship requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife, the establishment of good communication and understanding, respect for each other's feelings and needs, and the assumption of family responsibilities and obligations. If there are problems, they need to be communicated and solved in time to avoid the gradual accumulation of problems leading to marriage breakdown.
In case of a quarrel between husband and wife, I personally think that men should apologize first, so that the marriage can last longer. The party who apologizes first is not necessarily the loser, but loves the person more and hopes that the two sides will not affect their feelings because of the quarrel.
After a quarrel, husband and wife should not solve the problem in a cold and violent way, but one party should take the initiative to apologize. If the man is willing to take the lead and try to repair the relationship between the two parties, it will make people feel that the man is more generous and tolerant, and it will make the woman feel better. At this time, even if there is more anger and complaints, the woman will follow the pole. And as long as the woman is soft hearted, no matter how big the problem is, it can be solved as soon as possible. From this perspective, the man apologizes first, which is conducive to maintaining the stability of the relationship between husband and wife.
However, if the man apologizes first, it does not mean that the man is the loser in the marital relationship. Although they surrendered first, they were able to tame their other half and hold the other half's heart firmly in their hands. Compared with long-term company, this temporary grievance is actually the real king. Because if there is an overnight feud between husband and wife, or if there is a cold and violent stalemate for a long time, it will slowly consume the feelings between them. However, as long as the man takes the initiative to compromise, the woman is still easily coaxed.
Marriage is a compromise and mutual achievement. When we have a dispute with the other party, we should not focus on who is right and who is wrong. The more important concern should be the specific attitude of both parties. If the other side has a good attitude and is still willing to bow to us even though they are not convinced, such accommodative attitude will easily move people. And home is a place that stresses love, not a place that is simple and reasonable. So as long as this love continues to spread, no matter how many quarrels occur between husband and wife, there is no need to be afraid. Because the man may take the initiative to compromise in order to maintain the family. Of course, the woman can also make some concessions, not having to win every time. Such mutual understanding and mutual recognition can make the relationship between husband and wife better.
If a husband and wife quarrel, and the wife always bows her head first, it only shows that the man is too powerful, and he has male chauvinism. Even if he is wrong, he will not admit it, because he thinks it will harm the dignity of the man, but in fact, this idea is totally wrong.
As his wife, the woman can't always accommodate him, let alone bow her head. If a woman doesn't want to destroy the family, she can find her own elders, such as her parents, such as her husband's parents, and let the elders come forward to educate the man. The effect is much better than that of bowing her head
