After marriage, some couples have bad feelings, and some people get married for the sake of marriage. After marriage, the feelings between the couple are very indifferent. So, what are the manifestations of married men who do not love their wives? If a man has the following points, he really doesn't love his wife.
First, often stay out after marriage
A man cannot go home after work unless he is on a business trip. However, if it is normal that a man often does not go home at night, then the man certainly does not love his wife. If he really loves his wife, he will not let her worry and will not go home.
Second, they are unwilling to share and discuss things
If the relationship between husband and wife is really good, if the husband has anything to do, he must discuss it with his wife, rather than making decisions alone, especially in matters related to family. In normal times, if a husband is unwilling to share something, good or bad, with his wife, then he may not love his wife.
Third, he doesn't care or participate in family affairs
Marriage needs two people to manage, and the same is true for the family. If the husband leaves everything to his wife in the marriage and never participates in it, then the man must not love his wife. If he really loves his wife, he will participate in the daily necessities of the family, and will also participate in raising children.
Fourth, keeping a mistress outside without you
Some men, after getting married, still spend time and drink in the open, even find a mistress outside with their wives behind their backs. Such a man does not love his wife 100%, and such a man is unworthy of marriage. Such a man has no sense of responsibility for his family. Even if his wife finds out that he is mistaken, there are only zero and countless infidelities. So it is better to divorce when meeting such a man.
Not everyone's marriage is as sweet as ever. Many people will lose their passion for marriage because of the triviality of their married life. After a long time, their feelings will fade, and they will gradually grow tired of their wives.
The husband shows no feelings for you
1. He became silent about you
If he seems more and more silent in front of you, but still very talkative and active in front of others. He is too lazy to talk to you even about work or some interpersonal topics. When you talk to him, he seems absent-minded, so the signal of marriage crisis is more obvious.
2. He doesn't listen to you anymore
He won't go shopping with you or listen to your nagging. In the past, you may have been used to going shopping together and going back together. It's no problem if you nag about something. Recently, he is no longer willing to accompany you to the street. Once you nag, he will lose control of his emotions and start to get angry. In fact, his heart has changed quietly.
3. He began to deliberately avoid meeting you
He deliberately reduces the chance of meeting you, and often uses different excuses to avoid meeting you. He often stayed after work to work overtime or simply had fun outside with his colleagues. In fact, he just doesn't want to stay at home, but this doesn't necessarily mean that he has other women, only that he has been unhappy with you.
4. He feels indifferent to you.
The smile he used to have on his face was gone, replaced by a dispensable expression. He neither cares about nor cares about some of your affairs. He looks like a passer-by, holding aloof.
5. He deliberately avoids being alone with you
If he tries to avoid being alone in a room with you, long-term aesthetic fatigue will cause visual and auditory fatigue. For example, coupled with endless arguments between two people, it will eventually become a sense of disgust. Once this situation occurs, it will lead to marriage out of control. My husband basically doesn't talk to you after he comes back. He tries to avoid staying in the same room with you for a long time. He also tries to avoid contact with your body. He sleeps in separate rooms and beds. He doesn't stay at home when he has a rest. He can't even find some of his daily necessities. He would rather turn the boxes and cabinets over by himself than ask you.
The solutions for men who do not love their wives after marriage include:
1. Change the style of the past: Review your performance in love and compare it with your current performance to see what can be improved.
2. Learn to appreciate each other: try to find the strengths and loveliness of each other, look more at each other's strengths and ignore their weaknesses.
3. Warm Memory Method: When recalling your good times together, you can make a commemorative album or video on special festivals or birthdays to let the other party feel your memories and feelings.
4. Change your image: You can change your image appropriately, but don't go too far in pursuit of perfection, because no one is perfect.
5. Establish good communication: learn to communicate with each other, express your thoughts and feelings, and listen to each other's opinions and ideas.
6. Keep a low profile: Don't be high above others. Learn to put down your posture, get along with others on an equal footing, and respect their rights and feelings.
7. Seek professional help: If none of the above methods can solve the problem, you can seek the help of a psychological consultant or a marriage and family therapist to jointly explore ways to solve the problem.
It takes time and patience to solve the problem that men do not love their wives after marriage.
