The following four words must not be said if you want others to look up at you, or you will lose the price in others' eyes.
The first is to say less about private matters
Whether it's your own privacy or the privacy between yourself and your close friends, don't confide in others for a long time, and exchange your sincerity for others'. He can comfort you when you have a good relationship, but if something happens, he starts to misunderstand you, and when you have a bad relationship, these private things you once said are the chips for him to bite you back. People with high EQ always say three things, and honesty is not necessarily necessary. If you talk too much about your own privacy, your mystery in the other party's heart will disappear. If the other party sees you thoroughly, the other party will also feel that you are just like that. In this way, you will have no psychological advantage when communicating with the other party, and the other party will often have a sense of superiority. He knows you better than you do.
The second kind of words: you must say less if you want to take advantage
For example, you have recently found a discount product, and XXX restaurant has recently made great efforts to organize activities. Try to say as little as possible about this. Because you often say that, it often gives others the impression that they like to take advantage of small things. Everyone wants to live a better life, and they don't want to live in such a cheap life every day. So when you say that you love to take advantage of others, you will let them keep a certain distance from you, and you will feel that you will not be generous at the critical moment.
The third kind of words: words of annoyance and negative energy must be said less
In real life, everyone likes people with positive energy and doesn't like people with negative energy. Everyone hopes to live a more vigorous and hopeful life. There are too many words of annoyance and negative energy, but they make everyone's life as unattainable. I feel hopeless when I get along with you every day. So too much of these words will keep others at a distance from you.
The fourth kind of words: we must talk less about the things we show off
You should remember that in real life, except for your parents and those who really love you, most people do not want you to live better than him. So don't always show off your superiority to others. It's unnecessary. So don't show off your luck or superiority to others, because it's disgusting to talk too much. A truly capable person doesn't need to let others know how excellent he is. Your achievements will naturally be seen by others after you make them. But those who are eager to prove themselves are not the most capable people.
Communication between people is skillful. I believe that as long as you don't do the above devaluation, you can keep a sense of mystery in front of others and make others look up to you.
