Whether a woman has an idea or not is not a matter of good or bad, but depends on the specific situation and the way of use. Appropriate strategies can help women better cope with challenges and pressures, and improve their competitiveness and viability. For example, in the workplace, women need to be good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, seizing opportunities and mastering information, which all need some tricks.
However, if the scheming is excessive or used for immoral purposes, it may bring about negative effects. For example, it is immoral to cheat others and hurt others by using tricks, which will destroy interpersonal relationships and social trust.
Therefore, women should judge whether they need to use tricks according to the specific situation and their own values, and pay attention to the use methods and effects to avoid negative effects. At the same time, attention should be paid to maintaining honesty and integrity, and establishing good interpersonal relationships and social trust.
To be a man, you should have an idea. It is not to teach you to learn from bad, but to tell you that to be a man, you should know how to guard against people, use people, and help yourself. Life is often a battlefield. If you fail, it will be difficult to achieve good results, and success will not favor you.
1. A man should not be too simple. He should know how to disguise himself moderately.
People who do not know how to behave have no connotation and no desire to succeed. They can only suffer losses in the open, suffer from anger in the dark, and have holes in their pockets. They cannot turn over in their lifetime. If they want to protect themselves and develop themselves, they must know how to behave.
2. Leave room for everything, and leave a way out.
It's hard to be a man, it's hard to be a man. In many cases, you should not only leave room for others, but also pave a step for yourself. If you don't have a little ingenuity, being a man will fall into an alley. There is no way to retreat, there is no way out, and you can only stay on the dead end.
3. You can't say absolutely.
Many times, it is reflected in language. Some people say absolute words, and make promises without concealing their words. As a result, they can do very little and fail a lot. Finally, they are half dead and hated by others. It is really hard to please, and it hurts to bother.
4. Give yourself kindness, mature but not sophisticated, mature people, calm and steady.
Everyone wants to associate with him. Such a person can live in the society like a fish in water. The sophisticated people thought that they had taken advantage of the society and used all kinds of calculations in the society to be self righteous. As a result, they will see people's hearts for a long time. Because of the shrewdness of the sophistication, everyone will stay away from you, and will only end up alone.
If we say that a woman has a mind, we think that she is bad. This statement is too far fetched and exaggerated. We can't completely deny a woman just because of this. After all, whether a person has a mind or not is closely related to the person's growth experience, family education and other aspects, and if there is a mind, Generally speaking, it can only be regarded as a neutral word without any derogatory color.
First of all, if a woman has an idea, it means that she is more intelligent and intelligent, but on the other hand, it also means that she is often more alert in the process of getting along with others, and will not easily trust anyone around her. The reason why this woman is like this, I think, is often related to her growth experience. In the process of her growth, she may have suffered some setbacks or been hurt by some people, so that her mind will gradually mature. In the process of associating with other people, she often shows more scheming, Because for this woman, only by making herself smarter and being more insightful can she really protect herself and make her feel really safe.
Maybe we tend to think subjectively that if a woman has an idea, it means that she is not sincere enough in the process of getting along with others, so that such a woman always likes to calculate others. But if we want to think like this, or draw such a conclusion, it is too arbitrary to judge a person as good or bad, It's still necessary to get along with this person for a period of time, and make an objective and comprehensive evaluation based on the specific reality. It's just the so-called distance tells the horse power, and time will tell the heart. Maybe at the beginning, we didn't have a good opinion of this woman when we got along with her. We thought that the woman's character was always unclear, and our relationship with ourselves was always lacking in sincerity. But as two people continue to get along with each other, they will gradually understand this woman, and gradually discover the advantages of each other, In this way, we will no longer have prejudice against this woman, nor think that this woman has an idea, which means that this woman must be a bad person, but will think that this woman is a kind-hearted person who is good at camouflage.
In the end, it doesn't matter whether a woman is good or bad because she has an idea. The most important thing is whether she can really resonate with each other in the process of communication with the woman, and whether she can really get along with each other in terms of personality, as long as she can do these things, So when two people get along together, they will feel real happiness, and will not let themselves be resentful because of the other party's scheming.
