This is a biased view, because everyone's personality and preferences are different, so it cannot be generalized.
Some men may prefer gentle and flexible women, which does not mean that all men like such women. Everyone has his own unique taste and preference, so all men cannot be classified into the same category.
In addition, masculinity and gentleness are not opposite qualities. A man can have both masculinity and tenderness.
Most men like gentle and virtuous women for these reasons.
The first reason is that gentle girls give people a good feeling. They are obedient and dependent on you, so that men feel a sense of achievement. At least you can make women rely on him. This is a normal psychology, and gentle women give people elegance. But I think women should be independent in addition to being gentle.
The second reason depends on what men are running for. From a man's point of view, no man does not like gentle. Anyway, gentleness is just one of the personality characteristics of a person, and there are many more important. If you rush to get married, I think filial piety, knowing cold and knowing hot, is enough. Two people respect each other as guests, the best couple mode. If it is love, gentle women please men, turnips and cabbages have their own love, and it does not rule out that there are people who like unruly.
The third reason is the current social situation. The pace of life is fast, the family and the work pressure are high. At this time, boys are tough outside. When they return home, they are tired and need to be considerate and comforted. Most of the gentle girls know how to be considerate of others, so they are worth boys' liking.
The fourth reason is that every girl has a gentle side. When meeting someone she likes, every girl has a gentle side like water. If a boy likes a girl, he can always find her gentle side. Both boys and girls are mutual. They like the person they like to be gentle, and they are willing to be gentle with each other.
The fifth reason is that, generally speaking, the traditional male chauvinist prefer the gentle one, which is nice to say, gentle, but bad to say, it is easy to control, and can enjoy the feeling of being superior. A gentle girl will make the opposite sex have a sense of protection. She thinks she is a hero around her. Generally, young people who just set foot in the society like her. Or male chauvinism.
Not all men like gentle girls, but most of them do. The following analysis is for reference:
1、 Gentle women are very obedient
Boys and women live together, hoping to be a piece of sky, while women live under men's sky; So in the heart of men, women should listen to their own things when they are with themselves, instead of making trouble with themselves and playing the devil's advocate; So only a gentle woman can be an obedient and clever woman; Because women are gentle and kind-hearted, they naturally follow men and have a strong dependence; Everything depends on men, depends on men; Naturally, men say that women will follow men obediently when they go east, so men will like women in their hearts. This is male chauvinism, and boys will have some.
2、 Gentle women don't quarrel with men
When a man looks for a woman to go home, he wants to live a happy life; But every woman, because of her different personality, naturally will have different opinions in life, so when she is with a man, she will certainly quarrel; This is quite unacceptable for men; So in the heart of any man, he wants to find a gentle woman; Because a gentle woman will not quarrel with men, nor fight with men; If a woman is gentle, her heart will naturally be good. When there is a conflict with a man, she will know how to compromise.
3、 Gentle women know how to take care of men
On the way of life, men look for women, not just to pass on their ancestors; Most men want to find a life partner; Being with yourself can help you and take care of yourself; The woman who is not gentle may only think about herself in her heart, and will not take men seriously; And a gentle woman will certainly know how to take care of herself; As long as we are with men, women's minds will be all on men; Every day, they will take good care of men. Naturally, men will feel very happy and happy in their hearts.
4、 Gentle women can be human
Boys all hope to find a woman to add color to their life; All men will not find a woman to humiliate themselves; And a gentle woman, in life, she knows how to behave; Whatever you do, you will do it right; Let others feel that a woman is a very good woman, knowledgeable, understand everything; Such a woman, in the hearts of men, is the most important person, that is, a person who can add style to men, who can add beauty to men.
5、 A gentle woman has no bad heart
A gentle woman, with whom, will not have the heart of calculation, will not want to benefit from others; So such a woman, in the heart of men, is a treasure; Every man, no matter what his status or what he is, hopes to find a good woman and a woman who doesn't care about himself; These conditions, a gentle woman, can do such things; Because a gentle woman will have a good heart; Naturally, even if you are cheated, you will feel indifferent and won't care.
6、 Gentle women are emotionally single-minded
Any man wants to find a woman who treats him sincerely; Because with a woman who really loves herself, life will be happy and life will be sweet; A woman with a single-minded feeling, and only a gentle woman, can fully possess such a quality; If a woman is not a gentle woman, she may not be so loyal to her feelings, which is a great shame for men; So as long as a man meets a gentle woman, he will definitely want to be with her and be fascinated by her.
