After men and women determine their relationship, getting along is also a matter that needs to be explored and learned slowly. Here are some tips for getting along:
1. Mutual respect: respect is the foundation of healthy relations. Both men and women should respect each other's ideas and feelings, and establish good communication and trust.
2. Mutual inclusiveness and support: inclusiveness and support are important factors for maintaining relationships. In the process of getting along, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions and frictions. At this time, both sides need to tolerate and support each other to solve problems together.
3. Mutual consideration and care: consideration and care is an important way to express love. In daily life, you can pay attention to each other's life and emotions, care about their health and safety, and let them feel your love and care.
4. Keep independence and space for each other: In the relationship, both parties should keep a certain degree of independence and space, and do not rely on each other too much. This can maintain their own personality and interests, but also can maintain the passion of both sides.
5. Common growth and development: In the relationship, both parties should grow and develop together, encourage and support each other, and pursue their own ideals and goals. This can promote the personal growth and progress of both parties, and can also enhance the stability of the relationship.
What to do after confirming the relationship:
1、 Keep a distance and leave space for both sides
Some people are bored with each other for a long time when they are in love. They will find many shortcomings of each other after a long time. I suddenly found out how he was different from what I thought, how he had so many shortcomings, and then began to complain to each other.
In fact, love is like sand. If you hold on tight, you will lose more and have nothing at last. You'd better change your mind and leave some distance for the other party. The effect may be better.
2、 When there are contradictions, don't have a long cold war
It is normal to have conflicts when you are in love. Both parties are in a running in period, and conflicts often occur, but you should be careful not to enter the long-term cold war. There is no right or wrong about feelings. If the two parties really love each other, they will not fight over a small matter. The long-term cold war is a torment for both sides. If it is not handled properly, this relationship may end.
At this time, girls should insist that boys should be more generous. If boys in love do not take the initiative to break the cold war and always do not take the initiative to solve problems, it means that they are not deep in love, generous, careful, and not tolerant of girls. If they do not break up, it will hurt both sides, hurt themselves, and hurt others.
3、 More spiritual communication
Love without spiritual communication is empty. If there is always no words between each other, it cannot improve mutual understanding, let alone enhance feelings. Many conflicts arise here. Without communication, how can the other party know your idea. Don't think about understanding you. It's needless to say that the tacit understanding of the soul is accumulated by time. Therefore, if you want to better understand one person and better maintain the relationship between two people, communication is really necessary. If there is anything to say and if there is any contradiction resolved, it will be opened.
Sometimes silence is golden, sometimes silence is a knife. Love without communication is connivance at the other party's more and more obvious mistakes, or indifference! In fact, these are very hurtful! Sometimes the other party hopes to get more than praise from the lover! But almost nervous care! What you need to do is actually more communication and exchange, so as to solve problems and maintain good relations between the two sides.
The relationship between men and women needs the joint efforts and understanding of both parties. Only on the basis of mutual respect, tolerance and support can a healthy, stable and happy love relationship be established.
We get along well. Understanding each other's background is the guarantee of marital happiness. People are different in their interests and habits. In addition to being honest with each other, we should also pay attention to observation in the normal communication process. For example, read books, watch favorite movies, learn and practice your beliefs. In addition, we should also understand each other's family. Although marriage is for two people, the reality is that there are two families, even two families.
After a relationship is established, they often remember each other's old scores and finally make up because of deep understanding and differences. Many feelings are not lost to reality, but to trivial things. Especially in the language of cold injury, it makes people fall into the winter moon. Crossing thousands of mountains and rivers, crossing the sea of people, using sweet words, making beautiful vows, just successfully holding hands. It's not easy, especially for Christians, to meet the right Christians. This is a match made in heaven. Don't break up. If the hand needs to be cautious, then the breakup should also be cautious. There are sufficient reasons to explain to the other party why the other party is not suitable for the rest of your life. Don't ask for consent. We can't let others live according to their own ideas.
The more mature a person is, the more he understands to respect differences and tolerate lovers. No attachment, no coercion, no independence. After determining the relationship between two people, there is no need to deliberately ask for too many changes. It is better to make a natural transition. After all, life is uncertain, and you should live well every day. The more natural you are, the more true you are to each other, and the more comfortable you are together.
All things that are deliberately designed for them will become pale in the baptism of years, but increase fatigue. We get along well. Understanding each other's background is the guarantee of marital happiness. People are different in their interests and habits. In addition to being honest with each other, we should also pay attention to observation in the normal communication process. For example, read books, watch favorite movies, learn and practice your beliefs. In addition, we should also understand each other's family. Although marriage is for two people, the reality is that there are two families, even two families.
