Being able to speak is a skill. Many friends are liked when they speak. It is mainly related to their speaking habits. A good speaking habit naturally attracts people when they speak. So how can you talk comfortably and what are your communication skills? If you can develop the following three speaking habits, I believe you will be liked when you speak.
1. Be willing
The so-called "yes" is to have a sense of affirmation, not a sense of negation. Even if you cannot agree with the other party, in order to make the other party more receptive to your opinions, you cannot deny the other party at the beginning. "This is definitely not a good thing. It's impossible for you to put it this way, and I don't like it." Don't say anything that will give the other party a negative feeling. In order for the other party to accept us, we should first give the other party a certain sense of identity and understanding. "Your idea is really interesting, and your idea is very creative, which I didn't expect." To give the other party a certain recognition does not mean that you must support the other party. You can add further explanation next, but do not turn. If you say "but..." and give the other person a turning point, but also give the other person a negative feeling, so we must continue to convey a positive feeling to the other person, then your opinion can enter the other person's heart. For example, you can answer "Your idea is really interesting. I think if we do something more, it will be better, and the result will be more unexpected." By expressing your opinion in this way, you can not only affirm the other party, but also make it easier for the other party to accept your opinion.
2. Yes
Give the other party a sense of reliability and accuracy. How to convey a sense of reliability? When responding to the request of the other party, we should have a clear node and clear results. For example, it is necessary to respond positively and clearly to "what plans I will submit to you before 5:00 this evening, and what I will put in your place." This is a very specific time node and very specific result delivery. But sometimes we are asked, for example, the leader asks you how your work is going, and you are the person responsible for this matter. Even if it is not completed yet, you should tell the leader how much has been completed, and what is next. So if you are really asked by the leader, even if you can't answer how much you have completed now, you should at least have such a correct response: "Leader, how much I have completed this matter, you give me another two hours, I will give you an overall plan of work, and I will give you a detailed report within two hours."
3. Respectful
We chat with people. In order to make the other party like you from the beginning, you can express your concern and worship for the other party by showing weakness. This is called Youzun. Always look forward to being interested in each other's chat content. In this way, the other person will get along well with you, because when he gets along with you, he will find the sense of superiority, respect and importance. In this regard, we need to have some weak advice scripts: "How did you do it? Wow! You are so powerful, tell me what happened at that time, and then? What else? Great! I envy you so much." These are our weak advice scripts.
The above are the communication skills introduced to you. I believe that if you master these speaking skills, you will be liked once you open your mouth.
