In this era when the scum man is in charge, women must polish their eyes. If the other party has the following performance, it may be playing with you!
1. Hot and cold:
If a man is hot and cold to you, he will play hard to get. It means that he just wants to play tricks on you, and only thinks of you when he is lonely. All his warmth and kindness are for your body. When he reaches his goal, he will leave. People who are hot and cold don't have you in their hearts.
2. Your relationship is a secret:
To really love someone is to hope that everyone around you knows and wants to share this joyful news with everyone. If he doesn't love you, he will hide you from you for all kinds of reasons. Your love is always a secret. In this way, his departure will be silent.
3. Disrespect you:
He ignores your feelings and only thinks for himself. No matter what you do or what happens, he doesn't care. He always follows his own ideas. Such people never love you.
4. I will have close contact with you when I first met you:
This kind of man is not distracted by his kidney. No amount of talk can cover up the essence of a scum man. He said baby to you and sweet words to you. Want to occupy you, kiss you, or even directly routine you to bed, and finally leave.
5. In advance, they are all courteous, but later they turn their backs:
Before he got you, the scum man was obedient to you and very gentle. Once he got you, he looked like a different person immediately, afraid that you might fall back on him. If you find him again, he will always be "I'm busy, don't bother me!", and this kind of man is a typical scum man.
What are the performance characteristics of the scum man:
The first characteristic of a scum man is that he is easy to lose his temper, impatient, and swear at others, but he is elegant in front of the target and tries to disguise. The identification method is that if a man has an unknowable hatred against an honest same-sex man, then this is the right one
The second characteristic of the scum man is that he is one of the best friends. They will make him a perfect prince in front of the target. The identification method is that his friends often do bad things
The third characteristic of the scum man: he often jokes with some leftover women and mature women, and has reciprocity, but hides this behavior in front of the target. The identification method is that the bad women he associates have ambiguous attitudes towards him
The fourth characteristic of a scum man: he is always fussy and stingy, but he is generous in front of the target. The identification method is that he is very picky about the welfare and environment of his work, and he is not happy with the lack of it. He often asks Zhang San not Li Si
Characteristics5: He likes to look for places, even if the target is not relatively beautiful. The identification method is that it is difficult to identify. You will not know that he is the first boyfriend of many girls who has a metaphysical marriage
Trashy male character 6: slander a young man with noble morality as a philanderer full of lewdness, often accompanied by friends and friends, and show that men are very bad, but you don't know it, but you are absolutely better than others. The identification method is to believe in yourself
Characteristics7: Most young women always act like they are enjoying love in front of him, but they are not lovers, because he talks to her secretly, but in front of the target, he shows that girls like him actively. The identification method is as I said earlier
Traits 8: It is often said that his former lover disliked him for having no money or cheating on him, but he paid so much for her and tried to build up his own infatuation. The identification method is: the man who eats, drinks, whores and has money accounts for the third place. His ex girlfriend was actually driven away by his shameless asking for money
Traits 9: Know the psychological tactics of picking up girls well, and often transfer love to other girls to cause psychological pressure on the target. It seems that they will sell out if they don't rob. The identification method is that they know they are scum men at first sight. Later, they followed him. He spent a lot of money on eating, drinking, whoring, gambling, and asking for money. If he didn't give it, he would lose his temper and scold and hit people. He was so picky about his work that he simply didn't go to work. Anyhow, someone raised him, She often rolls the sheets with some leftover women, mature women, or even their women, but her girlfriend is not allowed to have any contact with the opposite sex or even the same sex.
Trait 10: At the beginning of a relationship, I found that he tried not to destroy his social relationship, but would destroy it secretly. The identification method is that he can't hide his anger. He is eager to see your information, steal your friends, or even threaten to beat your male friends and relatives, Suspicious but showing insignificant concern for your every social interaction
Characteristics11: I feel good about myself. I always feel that I don't meet my talents. I am generous to myself and to women. I run away or give myself reasons for spending money!
The following aspects can be used to identify the dross man:
1. Word of mouth in real life: learn about the stage, try to talk with him about his circle of friends and social circles, and see if he is willing to let you know about his real life circle.
2. Timeline connection: In the cognition stage, one month is neither hot nor cold for you, and three months is either cold or light, or does not talk about the formal love relationship between two people in depth, you can pass, and Hai Wang is suspected. If you decide to have a love relationship, you can pass if you don't interfere in emergencies and major events, or find reasons to avoid caring.
3. Communication of three views: explore the bottom line of his heart, understand his feelings and summary in the most difficult times, and understand what kind of life he would choose and who he would choose to live with if his life was at its lowest point. It's better to meet and get to know her attitude and feelings towards people and things face to face.
4. Go into real life more often: it is mainly to feel the difference between the feeling of meeting in real life and after meeting. After all, it is difficult to disguise a full set of things offline and online. You can not only find his attitude and emotions, but also let you feel his feelings and reactions to you. People's eyes, words and deeds can not hide their feelings.
5. Pay attention to his attitude towards money: when you are in an emergency or major event, whether he turns against you for money or even disappears from the world.
6. Observe his attitude towards his family: mainly observe whether his attitude towards his family is warm, filial and caring. It's hard to say that a person who doesn't love his family will love others.
7. Observe his hobbies: mainly observe what he likes to do at ordinary times, who he likes to play with at weekends, and what he doesn't like to do when working under pressure.
8. Pay attention to whether he often exaggerates himself: mainly observe whether he often exaggerates his own advantages, or even makes up some facts.
