In marriage, house is an important issue, but it is not the only factor that determines the success of marriage. If the man's family cannot afford to buy a house, he can explain the actual situation to the woman's family and find other solutions.
Here are some possible solutions:
1. Co purchase: Both parties can buy a house together, or choose to rent a house to live, so as to relieve economic pressure.
2. Delayed house purchase: it can be considered to delay house purchase and wait for economic conditions to improve before making a house purchase plan.
3. Seeking help: You can seek loans or subsidies from relatives, friends, banks or government departments to reduce the economic burden.
4. Change of concept: try to change the concept of house, and think that the happiness of marriage does not depend entirely on whether there is a house.
When dealing with this situation, we need to be frank, communicate rationally, and find appropriate solutions to reach consensus. At the same time, we also need to maintain patience and trust to face various challenges in life together.
Emotion and material are always related. Compared with the two, some people value emotion more and some people value material more, so you need to analyze whether you value emotion or material more. When you know yourself well enough, make the right choice.
It is normal that a boyfriend cannot afford to buy a house when he just comes out, because many young people are empty handed when they just come out to work. As long as he has enough potential and is a studious person, buying a house is sooner or later.
It is normal for parents to interfere in their children's marriage. The world is a parent. Every parent hopes that their children will live happily and not worry about material things, so their original intention is right. They may not know your boyfriend well enough, so they will demand material things. At this time, you need to communicate with your parents from the perspective of your boyfriend.
If you identify your boyfriend and think that he is a creative material, you should consider the problem from his perspective, understand him, help him, and grow with him. If you think he doesn't have much potential and it is difficult to buy a house in the future, but you have high material requirements and don't want to go against your parents' wishes, then I think you should carefully consider whether this relationship should continue to develop.
So it is very simple to face this matter. The first is to know yourself well, and the second is to know your boyfriend well.
Then judge whether this relationship will go on. If you are willing to go on, you are willing to share weal and woe with your boyfriend. Then you should try your best to impress your parents and tell them that your boyfriend is a potential person and a successful person, so show your determination to work with him. If it is really a good relationship and you two are willing to work together, I believe your parents will be moved by you!
