The wife's parents do not agree with you together. At this time, we should find the root of the problem and solve it.
Carefully find out whether the main reason why the wife's parents don't agree with you together is that your own conditions are too low to meet the wishes of the wife's parents, or your poor family economic conditions make the wife's parents look down on you. Is it because you don't want to make progress, have no development potential, or your parents expect too much of you.
Is it because you are not good at dealing with people, or the female parents are too strict with you. Find out the main reasons why your parents oppose you together. If you can solve it by yourself, solve it immediately. If you can't solve it even though you try your best, open a new path.
Communicate carefully. It mainly refers to the serious emotional and ideological exchanges with the female parents, the elimination of misunderstandings and worries, and the efforts to win the consent of the female parents. Parents also hope that their daughter can find a good partner and a happy family. Sometimes it is normal for women's parents to think more, because girls are different from boys in some aspects.
If you choose the wrong person and enter the wrong door, it will be difficult for girls to change without too much proud capital. So you should take the initiative to communicate with her parents and use your own practical actions to win their understanding and trust. You are communicating with the woman's parents, and you have to ask others for help. So you must keep a low profile and be modest and prudent.
If your girlfriend's family objects to your relationship, you can consider the following ways to solve this problem:
1. Understand the position of family members: understand the reasons why family members oppose you, which may be due to cultural, religious or other differences, or because they do not know enough about you. Knowing their position can help you deal with this problem better.
2. Communicate with your girlfriend: Talk frankly with your girlfriend and tell her your thoughts and feelings. Try not to blame or criticize her family, but express your concern for her and hope that they can better understand your views and ideas. Try to find common ground and find feasible solutions.
3. Respect family culture and tradition: respect the family culture and tradition of the girlfriend, try to communicate with her family and build trust. Understand their values and views, and try to comply with these rules and customs.
4. Seeking a neutral third party: If you cannot reach a consensus on this issue, you can consider seeking a neutral third party, such as a consultant or family member. They can provide you with advice and guidance to help you better understand each other's views.
5. Building trust and communication: building trust and communication is the key to solving this problem. Try to establish a good relationship with your girlfriend's family and show your good qualities and habits in your daily life. At the same time, we should keep open and honest communication and try to find common ground and solutions to problems.
The most important thing is to keep calm and rational, and not to act violently or impulsively. Try to understand and respect each other's position, keep open and honest communication, and believe that time and effort will eventually solve this problem.
Let the parents of the woman see your side, your ability and your value.
People who just talk without practice are the most aggressive. Although your girlfriend can tolerate you, her parents will certainly not tolerate you. Her parents have experienced more things than her daughter. Naturally, they don't want her to suffer. They always live under your lies. Such love will not last forever. Therefore, the best way to get her parents to agree is to put it into action and prove it in a lasting way. Don't be too hasty, let the other party think you are acting skills.
If the woman's parents do not agree, they can take this opportunity to see whether the man has obtained the consent of the woman's parents in good faith. If not, then break up, no way. However, if the husband's parents do not agree, the woman is not recommended to fight for it. The reason why he should leave without looking back is to let him be filial to his parents.
If he wants to fight, he must deal with his parents. If he doesn't fight for you, such a boyfriend should be separated, or he will suffer in the future. The reason why I have such a double standard is that the woman's family will not live with you, while the man's family will live with you.
In the face of female parents' opposition, of course, you have reason to "not be convinced". But more importantly, what can you do to make her parents "trust you"? Any problem that money can solve is not a problem. It is speculated that her parents' concern about economic strength is only one aspect, but not the most important aspect. If they can see your more valuable qualities, they will be sure that you can bring happiness to their daughter.
Some parents pray that their daughter can marry a good man who really cares about her and doesn't let her get hurt. Economy is not the most important consideration, so many parents will test the man. The man has done a good job. The parents of the woman will feel that the man is worthy of entrustment. The family of the woman will use your actions, perseverance, and most importantly, your character (in the face of their opposition, this is the time to test your patience). It is a good way to let your girlfriend's parents feel your love for their daughter.
