Generally speaking, if the parents of the woman don't agree, it will not work. Now the parents of the woman value the man's family very much. If the man doesn't have a house, a car or a well paid job, he won't marry his daughter. In particular, women's families living in cities pay more attention to men's family circumstances.
Although today's parents are very powerful, it is understandable to think that it is not easy for Bijing to raise his daughter up. Nowadays, the cost of social life is very high, and the pressure of life is very high. It will be easier to marry a powerful family. Life will not be so hard, and parents will be more relieved.
But many parents often ignore their children's true feelings. Parents never put feelings first. Money is their first choice. They think that if they have money, they can live a happy life. They can buy whatever they want without too much regret.
Although money can satisfy the desire to buy, I am happy. However, emotional communication is also very important. Without emotion based marriage, in the future life, there will always be quarrels and frictions, which will easily lead to extreme slanders. This kind of marriage is most likely to break up, which I believe many parents are unwilling to see.
In reality, many parents do not agree with their children and the poor one together, but if their children are more determined, there is no way. It depends on whether the children and the other party have deep feelings and strong attitudes. If parents still do not agree, the final result that parents do not want to see may be the elopement of their children.
Finally, I want to say that love is free, and marriage is also free. Parents can give their children some insightful opinions and experience, but they can't intervene forcefully. Don't just focus on money and status, but more on morality, as long as they are diligent and reliable. Children have their own children's happiness. We can't control our destiny. Let nature take its course is the right way.
Whether the marriage is happy, which is opposed by the wife's parents and relatives, cannot be generalized, because the situation of each family and everyone is different. But, generally speaking, marriage is difficult to be happy in this situation. Here are some possible reasons for this:
1. Differences in family culture and values: The culture and values of the parents and relatives of the woman may be different from those of the bride and groom, which may lead to communication barriers, insufficient understanding or conflicts between them.
2. Differences in personality and living habits: The personality and living habits of the bride and groom may be different from those of the wife's parents and relatives, which may lead to unhappiness or conflicts in living habits.
3. Economic and social pressure: The parents and relatives of the woman may bring economic and social pressure to the bride and groom, such as requiring them to buy expensive real estate, gift money or other additional expenses, which may lead to economic burden and psychological pressure.
4. Contradictions between relatives: There may be contradictions or differences between the wife's parents and relatives, which may affect their views and attitudes towards the bride and groom.
5. The intensity of love and whether they have the ability to deal with problems: even if the wife's parents and relatives oppose this marriage, if the bride and groom really love each other and have the ability to deal with problems, they are still likely to overcome difficulties and make the marriage happy.
The happiness of the marriage that the wife's parents and relatives oppose depends on the specific circumstances and reasons. If both parties truly love each other and have the ability to deal with problems, they are still likely to overcome difficulties and make their marriage happy. However, if there are contradictions and problems that are difficult to coordinate between the two parties, it may lead to a difficult marriage.
The love that parents oppose does not necessarily lead to unhappiness after marriage, which depends on their personal situation and handling methods. Here are some possible situations and suggestions:
1. Reasons for parents' objection: If parents' objection is due to the other party's differences in family background, occupation, religious belief, etc., it is necessary to seriously consider the impact of these factors on marriage. If these factors may lead to marital instability or conflict, it is necessary to seriously consider whether it is worth taking this risk.
2. Two people's situation: if their personalities, values, hobbies and other aspects are relatively consistent, they can support and understand each other, then even if their parents oppose, they may have a happy marriage life.
3. Handling method: If parents object, they need to listen to their opinions and suggestions carefully, and try to communicate and solve problems as much as possible. If the parents' objection is due to some shortcomings or deficiencies of the other party, they need to seriously consider these problems, and try to improve and enhance themselves. If parents' objection is due to personal prejudice or misunderstanding, they need to explain and communicate patiently so that they can understand their own ideas and decisions.
4. In short, the love that parents oppose does not necessarily lead to unhappiness after marriage, which depends on their personal situation and handling methods.
5. If they understand, support and respect each other, they can face difficulties and challenges together and create a happy marriage life together.
